{"id":922,"date":"2013-04-15T09:00:03","date_gmt":"2013-04-15T14:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mtvpastor.com\/?p=922"},"modified":"2013-04-15T09:00:03","modified_gmt":"2013-04-15T14:00:03","slug":"the-most-dangerous-thing-to-give-a-teenage-boy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/newwineskins\/the-most-dangerous-thing-to-give-a-teenage-boy\/","title":{"rendered":"The Most Dangerous Thing to Give a Teenage Boy"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>If you\u2019re a parent with a son still living at home, then you need to read this. The most dangerous thing you can give your son is <strong>unfiltered internet access<\/strong>. I know you know there\u2019s some bad stuff on the internet (primarily porn), but it\u2019s worse and more pervasive than you think. Roughly 25% of all internet searches are porn related, and the average age of first exposure to pornography is 11 years old.<\/p>\n<p>When you were growing up, access to pornography was limited to purchasing dirty magazines at a gas station or watching adult themed movies. Now, any child with an iphone has unfiltered access to pornography that will severely warp his view of sexuality. Pornography will erode his future intimacy with his wife could enslave him for years to come. You don\u2019t want that for your son.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying that you need to become Amish and throw away all technology. I\u2019m just saying you need to be smart.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #333333\"><span style=\"line-height: 13px\">Realize there are parental controls on most smart phones. Use them.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li>Realize there are ways to get around a lot of parental controls on most smart phones. Just because you blocked Safari, it doesn\u2019t mean they don\u2019t have internet access. Many other \u2018safe\u2019 apps (like Google or even CNN) have internet browsers built in. Don\u2019t think blocking Safari has you in the clear.<\/li>\n<li>Most internet browsers now have \u2018private browsing,\u2019 allowing you to surf with no trail. So, just because their search history is clean, it doesn\u2019t mean they haven\u2019t been viewing porn.<\/li>\n<li>Use internet filters. One of my favorites is <a href=\"http:\/\/www.x3watch.com\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">www.x3watch.com<\/a>. More than a filter, it\u2019s an accountability program that will notify you by email every time a questionable site is viewed.<\/li>\n<li>Have that awkward conversation with them. If they\u2019re going to struggle with pornography, deal with it now. That\u2019s what parents are supposed to do. As awkward as the conversation will be, I guarantee you he\u2019ll thank you when he\u2019s walking down the aisle, free from the chains that enslave too many married men.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Parents, don\u2019t let your teenage boy become another victim of the pornography industry. If you have a teenage boy, he\u2019s looked at porn. His level of exposure and his possibility for addiction will depend on your willingness to roll up your sleeves and fight for your son\u2019s purity. So fight.<\/p>\n<p><em>QUESTION: What other suggestions would you give parents who have teenage boys when it comes to internet access?<\/em><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019re a parent with a son still living at home, then you need to read this. The most dangerous thing you can give your son is unfiltered internet access. 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