{"id":40463,"date":"2017-02-26T05:00:59","date_gmt":"2017-02-26T09:00:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/nolongerquivering\/?p=40463"},"modified":"2017-02-25T13:47:35","modified_gmt":"2017-02-25T17:47:35","slug":"quoting-quiverfull-mothers-emotional-effectively-parent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/nolongerquivering\/2017\/02\/quoting-quiverfull-mothers-emotional-effectively-parent\/","title":{"rendered":"Quoting Quiverfull: Mothers Too Emotional to Effectively Parent?"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2017\/02\/quotingquiverfull-4.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-40464\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-40464\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2017\/02\/quotingquiverfull-4-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"quotingquiverfull\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\"><\/a>by Colin Campbell from <a href=\"http:\/\/aboverubies.org\/index.php\/blog\/mens-daily-encouragement\/entry\/be-there\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">Meat For Men \u2013 Be There!<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Editor\u2019s note: While having an involved father is a good thing for a family Mr. Campbell\u2019s reasoning here is insulting. More rational and calmer? Please, put up some proof or be quiet! Anyone perusing the writings of this man and his wife can clearly see Nancy is in control, not Colin, no matter his words.<\/em><!--more--><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Please do not leave the overall responsibility of parental presence to your wife There are many times, even in the daily ministrations of family life, when things go wrong. I think most women tend to be more emotional than men. It\u2019s not their fault. It\u2019s just the way they are wired.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<div>\n<blockquote><p>Most men react more rationally and calmer when a child has an accident or gets into trouble. I know that men cannot always be there because of working away from home, but when you get a lunch break or some time to take a break, please give your wife a call. Check up on what\u2019s happening at home.<\/p>\n<p>A husband\u2019s reassuring voice of wisdom goes a long way to calm a wife\u2019s frazzled nerves when things are not going well. When you are at home, be at home. In other words, be involved with your family as much as possible. I think it is possible for some men to be at home, but they might as well not be home. They shut themselves off from their family.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>QUOTING QUIVERFULL is a regular feature of NLQ \u2013 we present the actual words of noted Quiverfull leaders, cultural enforcers and those that seek to keep women submitted to men and ask our readers: What do you think? Agree? Disagree? This is the place to state your opinion. Please, let\u2019s keep it respectful \u2013 but at the same time, we encourage readers to examine the ideas of Quiverfull and Spiritual Abuse honestly and thoughtfully.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2017\/02\/more-6.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-40465\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-40465\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2017\/02\/more-6.jpg\" alt=\"more\" width=\"35\" height=\"46\"><\/a><em>Read more by Colin Campbell:<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/nolongerquivering\/2014\/11\/quoting-quiverfull-colin-campbell-has-to-spell-it-out-for-clueless-selfish-fathers\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\">Clueless Selfish Fathers<\/a><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<hr>\n<p><em>Stay in touch! 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All original content is owned by No Longer Quivering and Patheos.com<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Read our hate mail at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.jerks4jesus.com\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Jerks 4 Jesus<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Check out today\u2019s NLQ News at <a href=\"http:\/\/paper.li\/NoQuivering\/nlq-news#\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">NLQ Newspaper<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Contact NLQ at SuzanneNLQ@gmail.com<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #339966;\"><strong>Comments open below<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<h1><strong>NLQ Recommended Reading \u2026<\/strong><\/h1>\n<h4><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/s\/?_encoding=UTF8&amp;camp=213733&amp;creative=393193&amp;linkCode=shr&amp;tag=nolongerquivering-20&amp;rl=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&amp;field-keywords=quiverfull&amp;sprefix=quiverfu%2Cstripbooks&amp;rh=i%3Astripbooks%2Ck%3Aquiverfull\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" class=\" decorated-link\">Quiverfull: Inside the Christian Patriarchy Movement<\/a> by Kathryn Joyce<\/strong><\/h4>\n<h4><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/s\/?_encoding=UTF8&amp;camp=213733&amp;creative=393193&amp;linkCode=shr&amp;tag=nolongerquivering-20&amp;rl=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&amp;field-keywords=13+24+a+story+of+faith+and+obsession&amp;sprefix=13%3A24%2Cstripbooks%2C225&amp;rh=n%3A283155%2Ck%3A13+24+a+story+of+faith+and+obsession\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">13:24 \u2013 A Story of Faith and Obsession<\/a> by M Dolon Hickmon<\/strong><\/h4>\n<p><script src=\"http:\/\/ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/widgets\/q?rt=tf_cw&amp;ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;ID=V20070822%2FUS%2Ffamiliesthatflou%2F8010%2Fd1d36158-acbb-41c4-88f5-9993508379fe&amp;Operation=GetScriptTemplate\" charset=\"utf-8\">\/\/ <![CDATA[\n\n\/\/ ]]><\/script><\/p>\n<p><\/p><noscript><a href=\"http:\/\/ws-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/widgets\/q?rt=tf_cw&amp;ServiceVersion=20070822&amp;MarketPlace=US&amp;ID=V20070822%2FUS%2Ffamiliesthatflou%2F8010%2Fd1d36158-acbb-41c4-88f5-9993508379fe&amp;Operation=NoScript\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Amazon.com Widgets<\/a><\/noscript>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Colin Campbell from Meat For Men \u2013 Be There! Editor\u2019s note: While having an involved father is a good thing for a family Mr. Campbell\u2019s reasoning here is insulting. More rational and calmer? Please, put up some proof or be quiet! Anyone perusing the writings of this man and his wife can clearly see [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1057,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10841,7571,10622,6089,4251,6322,5102],"tags":[5684,3717,13413,13412,7519],"class_list":["post-40463","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-youre-doing-it-wrong","category-because-penis","category-blaming-mothers","category-children-are-owned-by-parents","category-christian-fundamentalism-2","category-christian-parenting","category-labeling-emotions-as-wrong","tag-colin-campbell-meat-for-men","tag-gender-differences","tag-hysterical-females","tag-men-are-calmer-and-ration","tag-women-are-emotional"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Quoting Quiverfull: Mothers Too Emotional to 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