{"id":45902,"date":"2018-09-06T03:00:05","date_gmt":"2018-09-06T07:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/nolongerquivering\/?p=45902"},"modified":"2018-09-04T12:24:40","modified_gmt":"2018-09-04T16:24:40","slug":"jesus-is-the-ultimate-in-micro-managing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/nolongerquivering\/2018\/09\/jesus-is-the-ultimate-in-micro-managing\/","title":{"rendered":"Jesus is the Ultimate in Micro Managing?"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2018\/08\/jackasses1.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45651\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2018\/08\/jackasses1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"574\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>This comes from the latest bit in <a href=\"https:\/\/dougwils.com\/books-and-culture\/s7-engaging-the-culture\/the-great-servant-leadership-mistake.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Doug Wilson of Blog and Mablog\u2019s<\/a> review of <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/2oF2syA\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Aimee Byrd\u2019s book \u201cWhy Can\u2019t We Be Friends?\u201d<\/a>. Doug says a number of rather squishy things in this chapter, everything from that the honor\/shame society that women live in is good to disputing yet again that men and women can be friends without sex. Then he makes this claim about Jesus. No, Mr. Wilson, Jesus is not the ultimate in micro managing. Wilson might be though.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s where he claims Jesus loves micro managing:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2018\/09\/micromanager.png\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-45905\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2018\/09\/micromanager.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"999\" height=\"358\"><\/a>Nope. Most of the time micro managing people suck so badly to be around. Their view that everyone else is an incompetent boob is off putting before they even start issuing orders. It always seems like it\u2019s the most insecure immature people who lead by micro managing. Anyone with half a brain tries to avoid them.<\/p>\n<p>This explains a lot about Doug Wilson\u2019s people handling style and is all too common in the realms of Quiverfull Evangelicals.<\/p>\n<p>The rest of this word salad is Doug trying to claim that servant leadership does not exist, that it should be servant lordship and we silly women would not choke on calling our husbands lords if men were servant lords.<\/p>\n<hr>\n<p><em>Stay in touch! 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Doug says a number of rather squishy things in this chapter, everything from that the honor\/shame society that women live in is good to disputing yet again that men and women can [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1057,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7082,11626,10841,14256,10427,10818,11954,7571,4604],"tags":[15816,15902,5752,9467,15905],"class_list":["post-45902","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-learn-to-please-your-husband-or-else","category-never-criticize-your-pastor","category-youre-doing-it-wrong","category-a-feminist-devil-under-every-bush","category-a-wifes-needs-are-sin","category-a-womans-submission","category-arrogant-unloving-christians","category-because-penis","category-christian-patriarchy-movement","tag-aimee-byrd-why-cant-we-be-friends","tag-calling-husband-lord","tag-doug-wilson-blog-and-mablog","tag-friendship-with-the-opposite-sex","tag-jesus-micro-manages"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.1 - 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