{"id":50544,"date":"2019-07-21T18:34:49","date_gmt":"2019-07-21T22:34:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/nolongerquivering\/?p=50544"},"modified":"2019-07-21T18:36:41","modified_gmt":"2019-07-21T22:36:41","slug":"peeking-into-a-patriarchs-mind","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/nolongerquivering\/2019\/07\/peeking-into-a-patriarchs-mind\/","title":{"rendered":"Peeking Into a Patriarch&#8217;s Mind?"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>This has been one of\u00a0 those weeks where I wish I could just pour bleach right onto my brain and scrub hard with a steel wool bristled brush. The kind of brush you use working with stained glass.<\/p>\n<p>Why? Larry Solomon of Biblical Gender Roles has taken a subject in the most gross and disgusting directions possible. I cannot even start to describe today\u2019s post in this chain of awful without violation of all of Patheo\u2019s forbidden words list.<\/p>\n<p>Let me lay it out simply.<\/p>\n<p>First a lady asked <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/nolongerquivering\/2019\/07\/only-men-can-use-the-silent-treatment\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">if it was Biblical for a man to use the silent treatment.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Trey says <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/nolongerquivering\/2019\/07\/trey-says-silent-treatment-of-husband-requires-oral-sex\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">he would orally rape his wife<\/a> and force her to swallow if she dared defy him.<\/p>\n<p>Tons of guys and Larry Solomon say that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/nolongerquivering\/2019\/07\/physically-abusing-your-wife-is-biblical\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">using domestic abuse, physical violence on a wife is right and Godly<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Today Larry explains more than you ever wanted to know about oral and anal sex. I wish I was kidding. Not safe for work or life. No linking here.\u00a0 You\u2019ll have to look on your own.<\/p>\n<p>I am still puzzling how we got from discussion of the silent treatment in marriage all the way to what could be considered a sex crime in some jurisdictions. Particularly when the beginning post had nothing to do with sex.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s a quick chart I made of the insanity, trying futilely to figure out how he got there. Makes no sense unless he and all his pals at Biblical Gender Roles are possibly addicted to very naughty things.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2019\/07\/Larrynuts.jpg.png\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50547\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2019\/07\/Larrynuts.jpg.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1350\" height=\"629\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t get it. But I\u2019m glad I don\u2019t. 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