{"id":56880,"date":"2020-08-31T12:20:21","date_gmt":"2020-08-31T16:20:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/nolongerquivering\/?p=56880"},"modified":"2022-03-01T17:14:31","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T21:14:31","slug":"shut-up-and-take-the-spousal-abuse-because-it-is-godly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/nolongerquivering\/2020\/08\/shut-up-and-take-the-spousal-abuse-because-it-is-godly\/","title":{"rendered":"Shut Up and Take the Spousal Abuse Because it is &#8216;Godly&#8217;"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2019\/06\/Abuse.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-50025\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2019\/06\/Abuse.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"491\" height=\"768\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Edited to take out anything with the name of the victim on it. Imagine if her husband found these things in their entirety.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s a series of screen caps found this very morn at the super secret roach nest of a certain female cultural enforcer, one rarely mentioned here now, Lori Alexander. I am naming her today and not removing any of the names of her followers from the screen caps because this is heinous. It should be criminal.<\/p>\n<p>What was I talking about here just the other day? Oh yeah, one of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/nolongerquivering\/2020\/08\/steven-anderson-new-ifb-spiraling-apart\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">the over one hundred scriptures that talk of doing evil secrets in hiding only to have them exposed to the light.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>This is evil. This is abuse. This is urging others to tolerate abuse because of a warping of scriptures for the sake of a man made religion. There is nothing in scriptures that orders you to stay and be abused! I was happy to see someone posted the power and control wheel used in abuse dynamics.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2020\/08\/moreabuse1.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56881 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2020\/08\/moreabuse1-e1598978505440.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"372\" height=\"451\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2020\/08\/moreabuse4.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-56887\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2020\/08\/moreabuse4.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"374\" height=\"768\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2020\/08\/moreabuse6-e1598978597498.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56892 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2020\/08\/moreabuse6-e1598978597498.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"366\" height=\"272\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2020\/08\/moreabuse7.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-56893 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/188\/2020\/08\/moreabuse7-e1598978677330.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"364\" height=\"481\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Please do not listen to the words of Lori Alexander. This is abuse. It\u2019s not \u2018Godly\u2019. You don\u2019t have to smile and take it. Don\u2019t like divorce, fine don\u2019t divorce but just get away from your abuser. Don\u2019t let it continue! You are worth more than that!<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"main-post\">\n<div class=\"story-block\" data-ux-module=\"components\/PostContent\" data-ux-state=\"loaded\">\n<div class=\"entry-content clearfix\">\n<p>~~~~~~~~~<br>\n<em>Stay in touch! 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Imagine if her husband found these things in their entirety. Here\u2019s a series of screen caps found this very morn at the super secret roach nest of a certain female cultural enforcer, one rarely mentioned here now, Lori Alexander. 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