During my summer vacation, I reread, for the first time since college (25 years ago), Marcus Aurelius\u2019s MEDITATIONS. Marcus was emperor of Rome from 161 \u2013 180 A.D. He was not a Christian, but he was wise. Here\u2019s just a sampling \u2026<\/em><\/p>\n When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself: The people I deal with today will be meddling, ungrateful, arrogant, dishonest, jealous, and surly. They are like this because they can\u2019t tell good from evil. But I have seen the beauty of good, and the ugliness of evil, and have recognized that the wrongdoer has a nature related to my own \u2014 not of the same blood or birth, but the same mind, and possessing a share of the divine. And so none of them can hurt me. No one can implicate me in ugliness. Nor can I feel angry at my relative, or hate him. We were born to work together like feet, hands, and eyes, like the two rows of teeth, upper and lower. To obstruct each other is unnatural. To feel anger at someone, to turn your back on him: these are obstructions.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t waste the rest of your time here worrying about other people \u2014 unless it affects the common good. It will keep you from doing anything useful. You\u2019ll be too preoccupied with what so-and-so is doing, and why, and what they\u2019re saying, and what they\u2019re thinking, and what they\u2019re up to, and all the other things that throw you off and keep you from focusing on your own mind.<\/p>\n You\u2019re better off not giving the small things more time than they deserve.<\/p>\n Constant awareness that everything is born from change. The knowledge that there is nothing nature loves more than to alter what exists and make new things like it. All that exists is the seed of will emerge from it. You think the only seeds are the ones that make plants or children? Go deeper.<\/p>\n Nothing that goes on in anyone else\u2019s mind can harm you. Nor can the shifts and changes in the world around you. Then where is the harm to be found?<\/p>\n Suppose that [God] announced that you were going to die tomorrow,or the day after. Unless you were a complete coward you wouldn\u2019t kick up a fuss about which day it was: what difference could it make? Now recognize that the difference between years from now and tomorrow is just as small.<\/p>\n The best revenge is not to be like that.<\/p>\n Not to assume it\u2019s impossible because you find it hard. But to recognize that if it\u2019s humanly possible, you can do it too.<\/p>\n Care for other human beings. Follow God.<\/p>\n It\u2019s quite possible to be a good man without anyone realizing it. Remember that.<\/p>\n It\u2019s silly to try to escape other people\u2019s faults. The are inescapable. Just try to escape your own.<\/p>\n Give yourself a gift: the present moment.<\/p>\n It doesn\u2019t matter how good a life you\u2019ve led. There\u2019ll still be people standing around the bed who will welcome the sad event.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" During my summer vacation, I reread, for the first time since college (25 years ago), Marcus Aurelius\u2019s MEDITATIONS. Marcus was emperor of Rome from 161 \u2013 180 A.D. He was not a Christian, but he was wise. Here\u2019s just a sampling \u2026 When you wake up in the morning, tell yourself: The people I deal […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1691,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2490","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"\n