{"id":1494,"date":"2013-02-19T08:12:38","date_gmt":"2013-02-19T15:12:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/paperbacktheology\/?p=1494"},"modified":"2013-02-20T16:59:47","modified_gmt":"2013-02-20T23:59:47","slug":"the-wisdom-of-henri-nouwen-how-vulnerability-comes-to-life-during-lent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/paperbacktheology\/2013\/02\/the-wisdom-of-henri-nouwen-how-vulnerability-comes-to-life-during-lent.html","title":{"rendered":"The Wisdom of Henri Nouwen: How Vulnerability Comes to Life During Lent"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

For Lent this year I\u2019m fasting from all foods after 9pm. The reason I\u2019m doing this is not very interesting. It\u2019s just that I typically use up all of my will power about 8:30 and by the time I hit the sack two hours later, I\u2019ve usually eaten around a thousand calories of junk. I\u2019m a gluttony-machine after 9pm. It\u2019s one of my many unhealthy emotional crutches, so I\u2019m giving it up.<\/p>\n

What<\/em> I\u2019m giving up for Lent is boring. The reason why<\/em> I\u2019m giving it up is way more interesting.<\/p>\n

Last week I spoke about the temptation of Jesus in the wilderness (you can listen here<\/a>). In Henri Nouwen\u2019s great book In the Name of Jesus<\/em> <\/a>he reflects on this story. Nouwen says that the three temptations Jesus faced were the temptations to be relevant, powerful, and spectacular.<\/p>\n

About the temptation to be\u00a0RELEVANT<\/strong>, Nouwen has this to say:<\/p>\n

\u201cI am deeply convinced that the Christian leader of the future is called to be completely irrelevant and to stand in this world with nothing to offer but his or her own vulnerable self.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

I think you can remove the words \u201cleader of the future\u201d and it makes just as much sense. The Christian is called to be completely irrelevant and to stand in the world with nothing to offer but one\u2019s own vulnerability. We have no idea how difficult this is, or how counter-cultural it is.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why we give something up for Lent \u2013 it teaches us to be vulnerable.<\/p>\n

The temptation to be POWERFUL<\/strong> is related. Nouwen says,<\/p>\n

\u201cWhat makes the temptation of power so seemingly irresistible\u2026 is that power offers an easy substitute for the hard task of love. It seems easier to be God than to love God, easier to control people than to love people, easier to own life than to love life.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Holy cow. Power\/Control is the favorite culture substitute for the hard task of love. That stings.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no better example of this than parenting. How will you lead your kids when you no longer hold all the power? Parents who only lead through size & position struggle like crazy when their kids become teenagers, because the parents never learned how to lead through their own vulnerability. Vulnerability is essential for love to exist. No vulnerability \u2013 no love. Leading through love is the way of Jesus. Leading through power is the way of the tempter.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why we give something up for Lent. It trains us in powerlessness.<\/p>\n

The third temptation is the temptation to be SPECTACULAR<\/strong>, which is huge in our culture. I think a key question of our time is: In a world where the spectacular is king, who will dare to do a small thing faithfully? Who will risk being faithful in obscurity? Who will dare to follow Jesus while nobody is watching?<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why we give up something for Lent. It teaches us to do a small thing faithfully.<\/p>\n

During Lent we choose to give up a thing or two \u2013 what<\/em> we give up is not that important; why<\/em> we do is everything. Lent dares us to undergo life without one or two of our favorite pacifiers. Eating after 9pm is my pacifier. It doesn\u2019t really nourish my soul; it just keeps my soul quiet. In Lent we go without these things, and the soul starts to cry out, bearing witness to our need to be relevant, powerful, and spectacular.<\/p>\n

Nothing is too small to give up because anything we give up will eventually point out to us the ways in which our soul so often turns to something other than God to get us through the day.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not too late. Pick one thing. Give it up until Easter. Allow it to show you the ways in which you are yielding to the temptations Jesus faced \u2013 to be relevant, to be powerful, to be spectacular. Allow it to teach you about the vulnerability that leads to love.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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