{"id":213,"date":"2011-12-12T07:33:00","date_gmt":"2011-12-12T07:33:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/paperbacktheology\/2011\/12\/18-common-phrases-to-avoid-in-conversation\/"},"modified":"2011-12-12T07:33:00","modified_gmt":"2011-12-12T07:33:00","slug":"18-common-phrases-to-avoid-in-conversation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/paperbacktheology\/2011\/12\/18-common-phrases-to-avoid-in-conversation.html","title":{"rendered":"18 Common Phrases to Avoid in Conversation"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p class=\"MsoNormal\">My wife reads REAL SIMPLE magazine. I\u2019ll admit to never reading it. However, I do look through it from time to time because the graphic design is really well done \u2013 classic clean look. Anyway, here\u2019s the first time on this blog that I\u2019ve ever featured something from a magazine which targets women as the primary audience. It comes from REAL SIMPLE. This is good stuff.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.realsimple.com\/work-life\/etiquette\/sticky-situations\/common-phrases-avoid-conversation-10000001698308\/index.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">18 Common Phrases to Avoid in Conversation<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">I picked my favorites:<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u201cYou look tired.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u201cWow, you\u2019ve lost a ton of weight!\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u201cYou look good for your age.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u201cI could never wear that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u201cThat\u2019s not my job.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u201cThis might sound stupid, but\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u201cI don\u2019t have time to talk to you.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u201cMy current boss is horrendous.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u201cDo you think I\u2019d fit in here?\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u201cAre you pregnant?\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u201cYou Always\u201d or \u201cYou never\u201d or \u201cYou\u2019re a _____\u201d or \u201cYou\u2019re wrong.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\u201cIf you really loved me, you would\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My wife reads REAL SIMPLE magazine. 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