{"id":113,"date":"2011-04-30T12:00:00","date_gmt":"2011-04-30T18:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/permissiontolive\/2011\/04\/national-spank-out-day\/"},"modified":"2012-12-20T15:00:47","modified_gmt":"2012-12-20T22:00:47","slug":"national-spank-out-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/permissiontolive\/2011\/04\/national-spank-out-day.html","title":{"rendered":"National Spank Out Day"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both;text-align: center\"><a href=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-eVJI-ZR3NIg\/Tbw_tunTJsI\/AAAAAAAAAv4\/AGK2vzAltVs\/s1600\/0511-0804-2412-3613.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img decoding=\"async\" border=\"0\" height=\"320px\" src=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/-eVJI-ZR3NIg\/Tbw_tunTJsI\/AAAAAAAAAv4\/AGK2vzAltVs\/s320\/0511-0804-2412-3613.jpg\" width=\"208px\"><\/a><\/div>\n<p>I felt so lost when I first decided not to spank. It seemed like there were just no resources for parents like me. After almost 2 years, I am continually surprised by the sheer amount of great information on why spanking is damaging, and tons of great resources on gentle parenting. The links to articles and websites that I have saved in my favorites continues to grow, and I am seriously considering starting a new resource\u00a0page on my blog where I can continue to link\u00a0information as I find it\u00a0for anyone looking for that type of thing.<\/p>\n<p>Today is <a href=\"http:\/\/www.stophitting.com\/index.php?page=spankout\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">National Spank Out day<\/a>, and I don\u2019t have a post of my own ready. So instead I am sharing a few of the posts I\u2019ve written in the past, as well as some awesome posts I\u2019ve seen around the Internet lately. <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/ayoungmomsmusings.blogspot.com\/2010\/04\/spanking-made-me-into-mean-mommy.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">This is one of the first posts I wrote on spanking<\/a>, and it still makes me emotional when I remember my daughters face as I told her we did not spank anymore.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.nospank.net\/pt2011.htm\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">This is a great summary on why and how spanking is damaging.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/ayoungmomsmusings.blogspot.com\/2011\/04\/gentle-parenting-tools-mutual-respect.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">This is my recent post on why children deserve as much respect as adults.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/dulcefamily.blogspot.com\/2011\/04\/rotten-fruit.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">A thought provoking post on the results of spanking.<\/a><\/p>\n<div style=\"border-bottom: medium none;border-left: medium none;border-right: medium none;border-top: medium none\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.jennifermcgrail.com\/2011\/04\/gentle-discipline-so-what-do-you-do.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">A post asking the typical question asked of parents who don\u2019t spank, with a great summary of the answer.<\/a><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<div style=\"border-bottom: medium none;border-left: medium none;border-right: medium none;border-top: medium none\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.stophitting.com\/pdf\/PositiveDiscipline-WhatItIsandHowToDoIt.pdf\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">And here is a free online book with lots of information on discipline without spanking.<\/a><\/div>\n<div style=\"border-bottom: medium none;border-left: medium none;border-right: medium none;border-top: medium none\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"border-bottom: medium none;border-left: medium none;border-right: medium none;border-top: medium none\">Be sure to check some of them out. And feel free to share any of your recent discoveries in the comments!<\/div>\n<div style=\"border-bottom: medium none;border-left: medium none;border-right: medium none;border-top: medium none\"><\/div>\n<p>I still believe that choosing to stop spanking my children changed my life and my children\u2019s lives for the better, I would never go back. I\u2019ve gone from using only spanking, to using mostly time-outs and insisting that <a href=\"http:\/\/ayoungmomsmusings.blogspot.com\/2009\/12\/discipline-vs-punishment.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">spanking had to be preserved for life-threatening disobedience<\/a>, to realizing that spankings are unnecessary and even \u201cchill-out\u201d times are becoming increasingly rare. My children are just as well behaved or better behaved than before, and <a href=\"http:\/\/ayoungmomsmusings.blogspot.com\/2010\/08\/i-quit-spanking.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">I am a much calmer, happier parent.<\/a> Do I ever have bad days where nothing seems to be going right and I have to fight my lifetime of training to hit my children? <a href=\"http:\/\/ayoungmomsmusings.blogspot.com\/2010\/07\/change-can-be-good.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Yes<\/a>. But those helpless feelings happen less and less often, and <a href=\"http:\/\/ayoungmomsmusings.blogspot.com\/2011\/03\/discipline-without-fear.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">I am finally confident that I am doing the right thing.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You can read more about my journey by clicking the Discipline label on the side of my blog.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I felt so lost when I first decided not to spank. It seemed like there were just no resources for parents like me. After almost 2 years, I am continually surprised by the sheer amount of great information on why spanking is damaging, and tons of great resources on gentle parenting. 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