Therefore take heed to your spirit, When was the last time you looked at this verse? It\u2019s used all the time, in the Message and in evangelical culture, to justify opposition to no-fault divorce and the rising trend of multiple marriages. \u201cGod hates divorce\u201d is the mantra of many Christian conservatives. But have you ever thought about what this verse actually means?<\/span><\/p>\n How did a verse that so obviously tells men to be kind to their wives and not to leave them destitute<\/em>\u00a0become a verse that tells women they have no right to leave an abusive marriage<\/em>?\u00a0(Isn\u2019t promising to love, protect and provide for someone and then throwing them out on the curb the very definition of \u201cdealing treacherously\u201d? Divorced women were in dire straits in that era.)\u00a0Branham taught that men could divorce women for adultery, but women could never divorce their husbands, under any circumstances. Branham taught that wives could win their husbands to Christ and change them from abusers to saints by living the example of the Holy Spirit before them. That is not what this verse is about. This verse, if anything, looks like it\u2019s about God caring for the afflictions of spurned women<\/em> and commanding men to treat their wives better<\/em>.<\/span><\/p>\n The \u201cstay until he changes\u201d dogma is a fiction created by cobbling together piles of fractured Scriptures into a Frankenstein that bears no resemblance to the words above. God hates divorce, indeed, but not because it ends a marriage. He hates it because it hurts women.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth. For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he\u00a0hateth\u00a0putting away. (Malachi 2:15-16) When was the last time you looked at this verse? It\u2019s used all the time, in the Message and in evangelical culture, to justify opposition […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1147,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[16,17,29],"tags":[956,957,594,969],"class_list":["post-675","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-love","category-marriage","category-women","tag-love","tag-marriage","tag-suffering","tag-women"],"yoast_head":"\n
\nand let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth<\/strong>.
\nFor the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he\u00a0hateth\u00a0putting away.
\n<\/em>(Malachi 2:15-16)<\/span><\/p>\n