{"id":3466,"date":"2014-08-04T14:43:52","date_gmt":"2014-08-04T19:43:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/pilgrimsroadtrip\/?p=3466"},"modified":"2014-08-04T14:43:52","modified_gmt":"2014-08-04T19:43:52","slug":"if-only-we-could-have-a-discussion-about-our-if-onlys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/pilgrimsroadtrip\/2014\/08\/if-only-we-could-have-a-discussion-about-our-if-onlys\/","title":{"rendered":"If Only We Could Have A Discussion About Our If Only&#8217;s"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><div style=\"color: #000000;\"><span style=\"color: #006666;\">Happy August, friend!\u00a0<\/span>\n<p>As miserable as last winter was for those of us living in the area of the country caught in the clutches of the Polar Vortex, this summer\u2019s mild temperatures and abundant sunshine have almost erased the memory of mountains of snow and<em>Frozen<\/em>-like temperatures.<\/p>\n<p>(Well, almost.)<\/p>\n<p>Though we\u2019re in the second half of summer, many of us are shopping for school supplies and looking ahead to autumn\u2019s schedules.<\/p>\n<p>For those of you involved in planning upcoming Bible studies, discipleship groups, book clubs, MOPS groups, retreat planning or women\u2019s ministry at your church, I wanted to let you know that I\u2019m scheduling speaking engagements for fall and winter. If you\u2019re not the one who organizes the gathering you attend, please pass this email along to someone who is. And even if your group meets far from where I live, I\u2019d love an opportunity to join you via Skype or FaceTime.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" title=\"flat cover IF ONLY 2\" src=\"https:\/\/699cb42a4e-custmedia.vresp.com\/862fa1f75d\/flat%20cover%20IF%20ONLY%202.jpg\" alt=\"flat cover IF ONLY 2\" width=\"275\" height=\"394\" align=\"right\" border=\"0\" hspace=\"5\" vspace=\"5\">I wrote\u00a0<em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/If-Only-Letting-Go-Regret\/dp\/0834132508\/ref=tmm_pap_title_0?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1406998769&amp;sr=1-1\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">If Only: Letting Go Of Regret<\/a><\/em>\u00a0in order to spark a productive, compassionate conversation about regret in the church. Jesus can redeem every single one of our regrets for his glory and our good.<\/p>\n<p>it would be my honor to share a bit of my own story, lead your group through an exploration of one of the Scripture passages highlighted in\u00a0<em>If Only\u00a0<\/em>or bring a message to your group such as:<\/p><\/div>\n<ul style=\"color: #000000;\">\n<li>Reunited: Regret\u2019s Gift To A Divided Heart<\/li>\n<li>Hamster Wheel, Rabbit Trail or GPS: Where Our Woulda, Shoulda, Couldas Lead<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div style=\"color: #000000;\">Regret is not an easy topic. I don\u2019t offer glib answers to long-standing pain, but it is my desire to point readers and hearers alike toward our Redeemer.<\/div>\n<div style=\"color: #000000; text-align: center;\">\nFor more information,\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/michellevanloon.com\/contact\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">click here<\/a>\u00a0to contact me. And feel free to use that contact page just to say hi!\n<p>* * * * * * *<\/p><\/div>\n<div style=\"color: #000000;\">\n<em><strong>For more about the book:\u00a0<\/strong><\/em>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"color: #000000;\">Preview the first chapter of\u00a0<em>If Only<\/em>\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.nph.com\/vcmedia\/2421\/2421745.pdf\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">here<\/a>.<\/div>\n<div style=\"color: #000000;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"color: #000000;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.nph.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/IfOnly-Grpahic.pdf\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">This great infographic<\/a>\u00a0from my publisher, Beacon Hill Press, captures some of the book\u2019s themes.<\/div>\n<div style=\"color: #000000;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"color: #000000;\">Dan Darling\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.christianitytoday.com\/parse\/2014\/july\/facing-regrets-with-prayer-and-courage.html?paging=off\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">interviewed me<\/a>\u00a0at\u00a0<em>Christianity Today\u2019s\u00a0<\/em>Parse leadership blog about<em>If Only<\/em>.<\/div>\n<div style=\"color: #000000;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"color: #000000;\">If you\u2019re a member of Goodreads.com,\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.goodreads.com\/book\/show\/20263194-if-only\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">you can enter to win<\/a>\u00a0a copy of the book now through August 12th. And if you\u2019ve already read\u00a0<em>If Only<\/em>, I\u2019d be so grateful it you could post a quick review on either Goodreads or the book\u2019s\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/If-Only-Letting-Go-Regret-ebook\/dp\/B00LGY1OH2\/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1407003777&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=if+only+van+loon\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Amazon page<\/a>.<\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Happy August, friend!\u00a0 As miserable as last winter was for those of us living in the area of the country caught in the clutches of the Polar Vortex, this summer\u2019s mild temperatures and abundant sunshine have almost erased the memory of mountains of snow andFrozen-like temperatures. (Well, almost.) 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