{"id":12662,"date":"2020-06-28T06:59:27","date_gmt":"2020-06-28T10:59:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/preventingrace\/?p=12662"},"modified":"2020-06-28T06:59:27","modified_gmt":"2020-06-28T10:59:27","slug":"humility-in-pride-month","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/preventingrace\/2020\/06\/28\/humility-in-pride-month\/","title":{"rendered":"Humility in Pride Month"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

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Jesus looking for something to read after Church.<\/em><\/p>\n

As you all know I\u2019ve been reading that new Glennon Doyle book for the last long while, punctuated by brief videos of me explaining that you\u2019re not a cheetah. The exercise, though annoying, has served to humble me through all the many pages. \u201cI mean,\u201d I\u2019ve said to myself as I\u2019ve gone back and forth across my kindle screen, \u201csome great people were raised up in the church to cope with Arius and Pelagius, and all those kinds of people. But reading is hard, and thinking things is hard, and so how blessed am I to be in a generation of Christians that gets to have their troubling heresies handed to them in a twitter feed with watercress around the edges, so easily refuted that one barely has to lift a baby finger.\u201d<\/p>\n

Like this one. Compare these two little bitty verses wrenched out of context (by me) from this morning\u2019s gospel:<\/p>\n

And\u00a0whoever does not take his cross and\u00a0follow me is not worthy of me.\u00a0Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

with this from that depressing book:<\/p>\n

We weren\u2019t born distrusting and fearing ourselves. That was part of our taming. We were taught to believe that who we are in our natural state is bad and dangerous. They convinced us to be afraid of ourselves. So we do not honor our own bodies, curiosity, hunger, judgment, experience, or ambition. Instead, we lock away our true selves. Women who are best at this disappearing act earn the highest praise: She is so selfless. Can you imagine? The epitome of womanhood is to lose one\u2019s self completely.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Doyle takes the whole book to make sure everyone knows, page after page after page, that the most important thing in the world is to cling onto the self at all cost, to find the self, to know the self, and, I don\u2019t think it\u2019s much of a stretch, to worship the self. The self is the most important thing. To suggest otherwise is heretical and<\/em> bigoted.<\/p>\n

The other depressing thing, besides the fact that this is such an ancient and trite heresy, the one propagated by Satan in that primordial garden, and which Adam and Eve were eager enough to believe that they both tasted the fruit without too much anxiety about it\u2014all the anxiety came later\u2014is that whereas heresy before took a lot of thinking through, all the heresy now comes emblazoned with foolish and paltry book titles, as Rod Dreher points out this morning<\/a>. Here are just some from the last ten years:<\/p>\n

Jen Hatmaker\u2014Fierce, Free, and Full of Fire<\/em> (that\u2019s the new one); For the Love<\/em>; Of Mess and Moxie<\/em><\/p>\n

Glennon\u2014Carry On, Warrior; Love Warrior; Untamed<\/em><\/p>\n

Poor Rachel Hollis\u2014Girl, Wash Your Face; Girl, Stop Apologizing<\/em><\/p>\n

If you go off the beaten path to find some other titles you get things like Max Lucado\u2019s When God Whispers Your Name<\/em> (I haven\u2019t read it so maybe it\u2019s awesome), the Women of Destiny Study Bible<\/em>, and something called Jesus Always<\/em> (I mean, I hope it\u2019s really about Jesus, haven\u2019t read it either). That\u2019s just one publisher. I don\u2019t feel like going on much. The point being that if you want to get anyone\u2019s attention today, the title has to be brief and it has to be about The Self in one way or another, because that\u2019s what everyone loves the most.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s always been this way (see Adam and Eve above), but humanity has tried to hide it some of the time. It\u2019s nice to pretend, at least, to be anxious about God or other people. But no longer. And so, if you\u2019re a real Christian, but tired (like me), you don\u2019t have to try very hard. All you have to do is flip around in your Bible a little bit and consider the eminently plain, though impossible admonitions of Jesus and post that on twitter, maybe even without commentary:<\/p>\n

Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.\u00a0And\u00a0whoever does not take his cross and\u00a0follow me is not worthy of me.\u00a0Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.\u00a0<\/sup><\/strong>Whoever receives you receives me, and\u00a0whoever receives me receives him who sent me.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Why does it have to be about Jesus and not just you and your \u201cself\u201d? Because the sure and certain way to die forever\u2014which is actually a lot worse than plain old annihilation, or whatever it is that Doyle thinks being \u201cselfless\u201d means\u2014is to hang on to yourself. Not only can you not do it (even though she tries to tell her daughter at one point that she, the daughter, can<\/em>) what will you be left with?<\/p>\n

Yourself, alone, isolated, having alienated all those people who are also clinging so desperately to themselves. And what are you? Flesh? Anxiety? Some walking, talking To-Do List like me? You didn\u2019t make yourself. You can\u2019t even take care of yourself, not without help. You can\u2019t do even those things that you want to do, like becoming a cheetah.<\/p>\n

Anyway, it\u2019s pride month, so I guess I will take my humility any which way I can get it. If you are a Christian this morning, go to church, lose your life, because the person who catches that life, who made it in the first place, has a far greater and more beautiful vision for how and why you matter. But the more you think about it\u2014or rather you\u2014the more boring and stupid and tarnished that vision will be. Jesus, on the other hand, is worth thinking about. His life is greater and more interesting than yours. His power is vast and magnificent. His love is more complicated and nuanced. His words are more full of meaning. His thoughts are far and away more exalted than your thoughts. His ways are more delightful and comforting than yours could ever be. And he gives all of himself to you, in exchange for the tragic shipwreck you would certainly make of yours if left to yourself. It\u2019s not a fair trade but he makes it anyway.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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