{"id":30619,"date":"2015-10-07T14:10:48","date_gmt":"2015-10-07T20:10:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/publiccatholic\/?p=30619"},"modified":"2015-10-07T14:10:48","modified_gmt":"2015-10-07T20:10:48","slug":"two-priests-in-trouble-for-having-boyfriends-is-there-a-difference-between-them","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/publiccatholic\/2015\/10\/two-priests-in-trouble-for-having-boyfriends-is-there-a-difference-between-them\/","title":{"rendered":"Two Priests In Trouble for Having Boyfriends. Is There a Difference Between Them?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

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This is a post about two prominent priests.<\/p>\n

The first prominent priest<\/a> held a powerful Vatican position and taught theology to priests. He told the world \u2014 in a press conference, no less \u2014 that he\u2019s gay, sexually active and proud of it. He denounced the \u201chomophobic\u201d Catholic Church and departed with a book deal<\/a> and his boyfriend.<\/p>\n

The second prominent<\/a> priest is from Chicago. He attended Pope Francis\u2019 address to Congress last month. It turns out that he also has a boyfriend. His archbishop removed him from his parish assignment.<\/p>\n

The Chicago priest, Father Marco Mercado, is asking for prayer, and says that his priority is the Gospel. He says he\u2019s sorry if his actions have scandalized anyone.<\/p>\n

Scandalized? Us?<\/p>\n

After the past 15 years, this barely causes a blip on the Church scandal meter. Those of us in the pews are just relieved it was between adults and something is being done about it. After all, the pope himself told us that there was a \u201cgay lobby\u201d <\/a>inside the Vatican, and just about every Catholic over the age of 12 knows that many of our priests are gay.<\/p>\n

What we have here is a tale of two priests. One fell off the chastity wagon and says he\u2019s sorry for what he did. The other denounced the Church for calling his sin a sin.<\/p>\n

This situation illustrates a big issue for the Church. How are we going to go forward in this onslaught of satanic evil that is coming down on us if our priests bunt instead of swing away?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not a question of whether or not we should have priests who are homosexual. We do <\/i>have priests who are homosexual and everybody knows it. The question is, which column does the priest fall into? Is he a priest, who happens to be homosexual? Or is he a homosexual, who happens to be a priest?<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t care if a priest happens to be homosexual. I care if he is an authentic follower of Christ. The day is past when we could get by with priests who went to seminary so that they wouldn\u2019t have to tell their mamas they were gay. We need holy priests who will lead us through these times.<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t bother me to learn that a priest has fallen flat on his face and done something stupid and sinful. Intimate involvement between two adults is definitely not the worst thing I\u2019ve ever heard of a person doing. People long for other people.<\/p>\n

As one of life\u2019s all-time sinners whose only hope was and is the love of God, I do not have the qualifications to be anything but understanding about other people\u2019s sins. I have been forgiven too much to draw a line on forgiveness to others.<\/p>\n

But forgiveness presupposes that the person acknowledges their sin and asks to be forgiven. We all sin, repent, get cleaned up and try again. That\u2019s life.<\/p>\n

The priest in Chicago says he\u2019s sorry. I don\u2019t know the situation, and I leave its resolution in his bishop\u2019s hands, but I\u2019m assuming that his relationship with an adult man did not involve someone who was vulnerable, such as a parish employee or a counseling situation. All I know is that he says he did wrong and that he\u2019s sorry for it.<\/p>\n

The priest in Rome wants the Church to stop telling him his sin is a sin. He\u2019s self-righteous and accusatory toward the Church that trusted him, educated him, promoted him and gave him enormous power.<\/p>\n

The fact is, he was ripping off the priesthood and it sounds as if he was doing it deliberately. Given his attitude, he had no business wearing a collar, much less being that close to the seat of power within the Church.<\/p>\n

Linda LaScola is an atheist blogger here at Patheos who writes in support of Christian clergy who become atheist. She has made comments that I think accurately describe the impact of fallen clergy. Here\u2019s part of what she says<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u2026 There are clergy who are purposely or inadvertently discouraging their parishioners from holding some of the foundational beliefs of their religion.\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n

\u2026 Liberal clergy will continue to lead the move away from biblical religion. They are humanists\u2019 natural allies \u2026 We predict they will keep discarding bits of Christian doctrine until it\u2019s gone.\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n

This is a post about two prominent priests. One fell off the chastity wagon and seeks forgiveness. The other condemns the Church for saying his sin is a sin.<\/p>\n

One affirms Christian doctrine and wants to be forgiven for his human weakness. The other demands that Christianity discard 2,000 years of teaching concerning human sexuality and condemns the Church for adhering to it.<\/p>\n

Which of these two priests would Ms LaScola consider \u201ca natural ally?\u201d<\/p>\n

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