{"id":36443,"date":"2020-05-06T09:31:21","date_gmt":"2020-05-06T15:31:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/publiccatholic\/?p=36443"},"modified":"2024-11-12T10:55:46","modified_gmt":"2024-11-12T17:55:46","slug":"if-this-isnt-a-rape-culture-what-is-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/publiccatholic\/2020\/05\/if-this-isnt-a-rape-culture-what-is-it\/","title":{"rendered":"If This Isn’t a Rape Culture, What Is It?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

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Photo Source: Wikimedia Commons by Gage Skidmore, https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/people\/22007612@N05, share alike.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/p>

I wrote a post a couple of days ago that set all sorts of nerves ajangle. I had the temerity to say that we live in a rape culture, and that women who come forward when they\u2019ve been assaulted are treated like dirt.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

It didn\u2019t surprise me a bit that I got a lot of pushback with that. I\u2019ve been advocating for victims of sexual assault all my adult life. I was one of the six founders of the YWCA Rape Crisis Center here in Oklahoma. When we did that, I had cops calling me at home and arguing with me because they were offended that I said that the police treated rape victims horribly.<\/p>\n

I was just a kid then, but I didn\u2019t back down. The fact was that the police treated rape victims horribly. They didn\u2019t mind doing it. They just didn\u2019t like anybody saying they did it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

I got the original funding for the statewide domestic violence shelters here in Oklahoma back when there was no federal money for such a thing. I was the original author of the protective order in this state. I\u2019ve passed more laws concerning this issue than I can even begin to remember. Sometimes a discussion will come along about a law, and I\u2019ll remember: I wrote that, and I passed it into law. Yep. I did that.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Let me tell you, I didn\u2019t do a bit of it by being afraid of or backing down before people who support these despicable predators. Ask anyone who ever served in office with me the kind of fight I will fight when this issue is on the line. I did the same thing with pro life legislation, which also got me shoved around.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

I wanted to take such good care of the people who elected me that they would always go further and do better because they had me. I wanted to do as much good for as many people as I could while I was in office. I focused on that, and to the best of my ability, I did it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

I haven\u2019t thought about it a lot, but when I do think about it, I am utterly amazed that anyone would know so little about me as to think that I would back or support a misogynist serial sexual predator like Donald Trump. I couldn\u2019t force myself to do that. It is not possible.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

By the same token, I am more than a little bit amazed that anyone would think that I would walk away from the woman who is accusing Joe Biden of sexual assault.<\/p>\n

She is not a Republican set up. She is a Democrat. She worked for Biden. He was her boss. He was also the chair of the Senate Judiciary Committee. It\u2019s clear to me from reading the comments about this situation that most people don\u2019t get just how much power that position holds.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

People understand that when a cop beats up his wife, she can\u2019t call the police. But they don\u2019t get that a staff member of the chairman of the Senate Judiciary Committee would be in the same position, raised by powers of ten.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

I believe her.<\/p>\n

This is the same Joe Biden who used his position as chair of the Senate Judiciary Committee to ram through the confirmation of Clarence Thomas, despite Anita Hill\u2019s testimony. He did this even though Thomas was the Supreme Court nominee of a Republican president. I don\u2019t have much trouble connecting those dots. If Biden\u2019s accuser is telling the truth \u2014 and I think she is \u2014 his behavior vs a vs Anita Hill suddenly does something that it never has before. It makes sense.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Anita Hill. Photo Source: Wikimedia Commons by Gage Skidmore https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/people\/22007612@N05<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Presidential Candidate Biden apologized<\/a> to Anita Hill a few months ago. She didn\u2019t buy it. I don\u2019t know, but I would guess that part of the reason she didn\u2019t buy it is because she thought it was a political move rather than sincere remorse.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Now, here we are, stuck in the morass of trying to decide what to do about another powerful man we need to support for political reasons who is also a sexual predator. Unlucky us, we feel. We never stop to consider that maybe we are part of what made this situation. We are part of the rape culture that supports sexual assault and persecutes victims into silence.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Every single woman who steps forward to accuse a powerful man is attacked, defamed and martyred with social martyrdom. They often face death threats, loss of income and endless, on-going persecution.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

I can attest that writing a simple little blog post saying I believe these women is enough to earn me a few insults and pronouncements of how I\u2019m going to hell in a bucket. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

I only mention it because it demonstrates the extreme lengths people will go to in order to attack and silence women who they say they\u2019ve been sexually assaulted by a powerful man. They not only attack the woman. They attack anyone who dares say they agree with her.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Dr Christine Blasey Ford. Photo Source: Wikimedia Commons Congressional photo, public domain<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

We live in a culture where powerful men rape and assault women, children and less powerful other men with impunity. If one of their victims steps forward, the victim is attacked without mercy. Every attempt is made by society as a whole to silence victims of sexual assault and make them afraid to say anything to anyone about what has been done to them. If anyone else comes along and says \u201cI believe the victim,\u201d they will have to take their turn at being called a few names, as well.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

If that\u2019s not a rape culture, what is it?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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