{"id":1880,"date":"2012-02-09T05:00:34","date_gmt":"2012-02-09T09:00:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/eatwithjoy.org\/?p=1880"},"modified":"2012-02-09T05:00:34","modified_gmt":"2012-02-09T09:00:34","slug":"teaching-kids-about-bread-of-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rachelmariestone\/2012\/02\/09\/teaching-kids-about-bread-of-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Teaching Children about the Bread of Life"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/484\/2012\/02\/dsc_0034.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-1881\" title=\"DSC_0034\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/484\/2012\/02\/dsc_0034.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"680\" height=\"1024\"><\/a>I had a question from a reader last week that I wanted to share with you:<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cHow you have trained your children to appreciate the table and to see food as more than just physical sustenance?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>And here is my response\u2013<\/p>\n<p><em>I think the most important thing with my kids has been more \u201cshow, don\u2019t tell.\u201d It\u2019s important to me that we say grace over a meal, thanking God for it, that we set the table decently even if we\u2019re <a title=\"The Best Pizza in All the\u00a0World\" href=\"http:\/\/eatwithjoy.org\/2011\/08\/10\/the-best-pizza-in-all-the-world\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">just eating pizza <\/a>(we live in NY, after all! Pizza is artisanal, heavenly food around here!), that we wait for one another to begin eating, etc. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>I do ask that they don\u2019t say \u201cthat\u2019s disgusting!\u201d or similar things about food\u2013it\u2019s important that they recognize that while it\u2019s OK to dislike a food and choose not to eat it, <strong>it\u2019s not OK to proclaim it \u201cbad.\u201d<\/strong> And I <a title=\"Weekend Eating Reading: Ellyn\u00a0Satter\" href=\"http:\/\/eatwithjoy.org\/2011\/08\/13\/weekend-eating-reading-ellyn-satter\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">try not to micro-manage<\/a> what they eat or don\u2019t eat (from the pre-selected group of things that might be on the table or available for snack.) One of my kids has extremely adventurous tastes, the other is fairly picky. I try to respect that.<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/484\/2012\/02\/dsc_0002.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1882\" title=\"DSC_0002\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/484\/2012\/02\/dsc_0002.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"692\" height=\"459\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>The other side of that is that they help us with the gardening (to the extent that they can\u2013they\u2019re little) and so they have respect for the food that comes from the earth and from <a title=\"Revolutionary Joy\u2026and\u00a0basil.\" href=\"http:\/\/eatwithjoy.org\/2011\/07\/30\/revolutionary-joy-and-basil\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">tiny, little seeds. <\/a>They know that sun, soil, water, careful gardening, and, ultimately, God, makes food come from the ground.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/484\/2012\/02\/dsc_0009.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1883\" title=\"DSC_0009\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/484\/2012\/02\/dsc_0009.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"692\" height=\"459\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I wrote more about feeding kids in the following posts\u2013<em><a href=\"http:\/\/eatwithjoy.org\/2011\/09\/08\/eating-with-children\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Eating with Children<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/eatwithjoy.org\/2011\/08\/13\/weekend-eating-reading-ellyn-satter\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Ellyn Satter<\/a>, <\/em>and <em><a href=\"http:\/\/eatwithjoy.org\/2012\/01\/11\/what-chefs-feed-their-kids\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">What Chefs Feed Their Kids.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>What about you? What has\/hasn\u2019t worked as you\u2019ve endeavored to eat mindfully and well with children?<\/em><\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I had a question from a reader last week that I wanted to share with you: \u201cHow you have trained your children to appreciate the table and to see food as more than just physical sustenance?\u201d And here is my response\u2013 I think the most important thing with my kids has been more \u201cshow, don\u2019t [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2070,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17,23,26],"tags":[604,783,901,1005,2189],"class_list":["post-1880","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bread-of-life","category-children","category-connecting","tag-cooking-with-children","tag-eating-with-children","tag-feeding-children","tag-gardening-with-children","tag-teaching-children-good-eating"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Teaching Children about the Bread of Life<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"I had a question from a reader last week that I wanted to share with you: &quot;How you have trained your children to appreciate the table and to see food as\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rachelmariestone\/2012\/02\/09\/teaching-kids-about-bread-of-life\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Teaching Children about the Bread of Life\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"I had a question from a reader last week that I wanted to share with you: &quot;How you have trained your children to appreciate the table and to see food as\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rachelmariestone\/2012\/02\/09\/teaching-kids-about-bread-of-life\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Rachel Marie Stone\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2012-02-09T09:00:34+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"http:\/\/wp.production.patheos.com\/blogs\/rachelmariestone\/files\/2012\/02\/dsc_0034.jpg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Rachel Marie Stone\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Rachel Marie Stone\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"1 minute\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rachelmariestone\/2012\/02\/09\/teaching-kids-about-bread-of-life\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rachelmariestone\/2012\/02\/09\/teaching-kids-about-bread-of-life\/\",\"name\":\"Teaching Children about the Bread of Life\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rachelmariestone\/#website\"},\"datePublished\":\"2012-02-09T09:00:34+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2012-02-09T09:00:34+00:00\",\"author\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rachelmariestone\/#\/schema\/person\/c46cec1db7f3461f4f3d5289c79a2a8c\"},\"description\":\"I had a question from a reader last week that I wanted to share with you: \\\"How you have trained your children to appreciate the table and to see food as\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rachelmariestone\/2012\/02\/09\/teaching-kids-about-bread-of-life\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rachelmariestone\/2012\/02\/09\/teaching-kids-about-bread-of-life\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rachelmariestone\/2012\/02\/09\/teaching-kids-about-bread-of-life\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rachelmariestone\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Teaching Children about the Bread of Life\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rachelmariestone\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rachelmariestone\/\",\"name\":\"Rachel Marie Stone\",\"description\":\"Faith, Family, Food; 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