{"id":3184,"date":"2012-08-20T06:00:48","date_gmt":"2012-08-20T10:00:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rachelmariestone\/?p=3184"},"modified":"2012-08-20T06:00:48","modified_gmt":"2012-08-20T10:00:48","slug":"everybodys-trying-to-change-somebody-or-what-google-siri-cant-tell-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rachelmariestone\/2012\/08\/20\/everybodys-trying-to-change-somebody-or-what-google-siri-cant-tell-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Everybody&#8217;s Trying To Change Somebody (or, What Google &amp; Siri Can&#8217;t Tell You)"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>My friend Melissa posted<a href=\"http:\/\/www.1918.com\/difference-between-men-women-google\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"> this interesting, disturbing piece<\/a> on Facebook. It compares what wives want from their husbands to what husbands want from their wives based on what they Google.<\/p>\n<p>I thought I\u2019d try the same things with children. What\u2019s the difference between what we Google for our daughters versus what we Google for our sons and what we Google for our children in general?<\/p>\n<p>First, daughters:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/484\/2012\/08\/screen-shot-2012-08-18-at-8-22-14-pm.png\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3185\" title=\"Screen shot 2012-08-18 at 8.22.14 PM\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/484\/2012\/08\/screen-shot-2012-08-18-at-8-22-14-pm.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"692\" height=\"123\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Then, sons:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/484\/2012\/08\/screen-shot-2012-08-18-at-8-22-37-pm.png\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3186\" title=\"Screen shot 2012-08-18 at 8.22.37 PM\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/484\/2012\/08\/screen-shot-2012-08-18-at-8-22-37-pm.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"692\" height=\"138\"><\/a>Finally, children:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/484\/2012\/08\/screen-shot-2012-08-18-at-8-22-53-pm.png\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3187\" title=\"Screen shot 2012-08-18 at 8.22.53 PM\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/484\/2012\/08\/screen-shot-2012-08-18-at-8-22-53-pm.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"692\" height=\"135\"><\/a>Are <em>that <\/em>many parents interested in getting their kids into modeling?<\/p>\n<p>Are parents <em>really<\/em> as worried about how to get daughters to lose weight as how to get sons to read? Are parents twice as concerned about getting kids into modeling as they are about getting their IQs tested<\/p>\n<p>And then I tried this: \u201chow do I talk to\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u2026and Google did this:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/484\/2012\/08\/screen-shot-2012-08-18-at-8-42-22-pm.png\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3190\" title=\"Screen shot 2012-08-18 at 8.42.22 PM\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/484\/2012\/08\/screen-shot-2012-08-18-at-8-42-22-pm.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"692\" height=\"132\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>And \u201chow to I protect my\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/484\/2012\/08\/screen-shot-2012-08-18-at-8-36-04-pm.png\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3189\" title=\"Screen shot 2012-08-18 at 8.36.04 PM\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/484\/2012\/08\/screen-shot-2012-08-18-at-8-36-04-pm.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"692\" height=\"133\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Now, I realize that this is an unscientific way to see what people are after, but still, I wonder\u2026what if we spent more time talking to and protecting ONE ANOTHER\u2013including our children\u2013than trying to \u201cget\u201d one another do or be something else?<\/p>\n<p>Maybe there are just some questions Google and Siri can\u2019t answer.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My friend Melissa posted this interesting, disturbing piece on Facebook. 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