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When I was in high school, I had a friend that I really looked up to. Greg was bright, talented, and most importantly he deeply loved the Lord Jesus. Unlike some of our other Christian friends, Greg was going somewhere for God. If anyone had a promising life of ministry ahead of him, surely it was Greg.<\/p>\n
Early one Friday evening in the spring of my junior year, the phone rang. Greg had just had a freak accident. He was in a great deal of pain, and the doctors were not sure if he would pull through. I remember like it was yesterday staying up all night, sitting on the hospital floor, praying, numbly, staring at the \u201cintensive care\u201d sign that stood between me and Greg. I prayed for healing, and I had strong faith that God would answer. It never occurred to me that His answer might be \u201cno.\u201d It was. A few days later Greg entered the presence of Jesus.<\/p>\n
Greg\u2019s father was not a Christian, and he was understandably a broken man. Many of us who were Christians had opportunity to share with him. I\u2019ll never forget when one of my brothers in Christ said to Greg\u2019s dad, \u201cYou know, the Bible says all things work together for good.\u201d His reaction was both understandable and predictable. He was angry and bitter, not only at Greg\u2019s death, but at the sheer audacity of someone apparently labeling his son\u2019s tragic death as \u201cgood!\u201d<\/p>\n
While I realized this feeble attempt at comfort was well intended, it hurt me as much as anyone. I thought it was an insensitive platitude that was totally inappropriate and untimely. Since then in my ministry I\u2019ve seen a great deal more accidents and sickness than I care to think about. And more than once I\u2019ve heard\u00a0Romans 8:28<\/a>\u00a0used in the wrong way at the wrong time.<\/p>\n In my book If God Is Good<\/em>, I share how\u00a0Darrell Scott told me that after his daughter Rachel was murdered at Columbine, people often quoted Romans 8:28<\/a> to him. He wasn\u2019t ready to hear it. How sad that such a powerful verse, cited carelessly or prematurely, becomes a source of pain when it should offer great comfort. Think of God\u2019s truths like tools. Don\u2019t use a hammer when you need a wrench. And don\u2019t use either when you need to give someone a hug, a blanket, or a meal\u2014or just weep with them.<\/p>\n In this video, I address the question, \u201cShould We Use Romans 8:28<\/a> to Comfort Others?\u201d<\/p>\n