{"id":1124,"date":"2009-04-20T10:05:00","date_gmt":"2009-04-20T10:05:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/rebeccafrech\/2009\/04\/happy-birthday-5-2.html"},"modified":"2014-08-22T15:53:16","modified_gmt":"2014-08-22T20:53:16","slug":"happy-birthday-5-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rebeccafrech\/2009\/04\/happy-birthday-5-2.html","title":{"rendered":"Happy Birthday #5!"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>From the moment I first learned of you, you were my special gift from my Heavenly Father.  Just by being, you helped to soothe the aches in my heart and assure me that life carries on even when it takes unexpected turns.  Your being taught me again to trust and know that good comes from tragedy and that that good can be better than you ever imagined it to be.  Your being taught a group of teenagers about the humanity of developing babies and your own siblings to look at that flicker on an ultrasound screen and see the beating heart of their little brother, and to love you before they could even hold you.<br><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/458\/__cIxBvfbwM4\/SeySw41OPXI\/AAAAAAAAAjQ\/mC0Od-agekg\/s1600-h\/Copy+of+kids+075.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px;text-align: center;cursor: pointer;width: 400px;height: 258px\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/458\/__cIxBvfbwM4\/SeySw41OPXI\/AAAAAAAAAjQ\/mC0Od-agekg\/s400\/Copy+of+kids+075.jpg\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5326793827859447154\" border=\"0\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Two years old already.  That is so hard for me to believe.  It feels as if I just saw your little red face for the first time yesterday.  Small and loud, but already a Mama\u2019s boy, snuggling in and sighing your contentment.<br><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/458\/__cIxBvfbwM4\/SeyQBJrPsdI\/AAAAAAAAAi4\/sYGBYvsrcH0\/s1600-h\/kids+153.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px;text-align: center;cursor: pointer;width: 400px;height: 300px\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/458\/__cIxBvfbwM4\/SeyQBJrPsdI\/AAAAAAAAAi4\/sYGBYvsrcH0\/s400\/kids+153.jpg\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5326790808724025810\" border=\"0\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Your serious demeanor and quiet ways led those who didn\u2019t know you well to think you were, in the words of your grandmother \u201csober as a judge.\u201d  We knew that a boy who doesn\u2019t smile himself can still be the funniest guy in the room.<br><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/458\/__cIxBvfbwM4\/SeySBCIsBSI\/AAAAAAAAAjI\/v8OMyC5tB10\/s1600-h\/Copy+of+Cullen+008.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0px auto 10px;text-align: center;cursor: pointer;width: 400px;height: 300px\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/458\/__cIxBvfbwM4\/SeySBCIsBSI\/AAAAAAAAAjI\/v8OMyC5tB10\/s400\/Copy+of+Cullen+008.jpg\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5326793005723288866\" border=\"0\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>As the youngest of a big family, there are always people ready to stand up for you and protect you.  You\u2019ve never wanted that, preferring instead to meet the world on your own terms and stare it down yourself.<br><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/458\/__cIxBvfbwM4\/SeyUJSSP19I\/AAAAAAAAAjY\/QAlvobMQLDc\/s1600-h\/boys+005.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin:0px auto 10px;text-align:center;cursor:pointer;cursor:hand;width: 400px;height: 300px\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/458\/__cIxBvfbwM4\/SeyUJSSP19I\/AAAAAAAAAjY\/QAlvobMQLDc\/s400\/boys+005.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5326795346520561618\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>My sweet independent boy who used to love his Mommy the best, but now the whole of the world disappears the moment your Daddy walks through the front door.  No more the  Mama\u2019s boy, now your Dad\u2019s little buddy. <br><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/458\/__cIxBvfbwM4\/SeyVSVTr-VI\/AAAAAAAAAjg\/lp_A--zXVvg\/s1600-h\/park+day+031.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin:0px auto 10px;text-align:center;cursor:pointer;cursor:hand;width: 400px;height: 300px\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/458\/__cIxBvfbwM4\/SeyVSVTr-VI\/AAAAAAAAAjg\/lp_A--zXVvg\/s400\/park+day+031.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5326796601462356306\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Not my baby any longer, but now officially a big kid.  My heart melted a bit this morning as you walked down the stairs holding not my hand, but the railing.  Growing and changing and learning every moment of every day.  Don\u2019t grow up too fast, my son.  Take a moment and slow down, curl up in my lap and still be my baby every now and again.  You may be ready to be a big guy, but I\u2019m not sure I am ready for it.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From the moment I first learned of you, you were my special gift from my Heavenly Father. Just by being, you helped to soothe the aches in my heart and assure me that life carries on even when it takes unexpected turns. 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