{"id":1222,"date":"2008-11-17T07:28:00","date_gmt":"2008-11-17T07:28:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/rebeccafrech\/2008\/11\/lazy-blogging-answered.html"},"modified":"2014-08-22T15:53:40","modified_gmt":"2014-08-22T20:53:40","slug":"lazy-blogging-answered","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rebeccafrech\/2008\/11\/lazy-blogging-answered.html","title":{"rendered":"Lazy Blogging, Answered"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>A few days ago, I gave readers the chance to ask me anything they wanted to know about me.  If you have a question for \u201cthe Mom\u201d then there\u2019s still time to ask.  <br>Therese asked:<br><span style=\"font-weight:bold\">what is your favourite thing about having many children?<br><\/span><br>The laughter.  I laugh more at myself, at the weird things they do and say, and at life in general.  They bring so much joy to our house. So, yeah, the laughter.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight:bold\">What is your worse thing about it?<\/span> The constant mess.  I am definitely not going to win any prizes for my housekeeping abilities, and to tell you the truth I am this close to declaring it a losing battle.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight:bold\">If you had $1,000,000 dollars what would you spend it on?<\/span> The real me would pay off the house, save money for the kids\u2019 college, and invest the rest.  The fun part of me would love to take the Computer Guy on the honeymoon we never got.  I would love to see Australia, Therese.  Do you think we\u2019d like it?<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight:bold\">That will do for starters.<br>If I think of any more over the weekend I will come back and ask a few.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Kim asked:<br><span style=\"font-weight:bold\">What advice and wisdom do you have to share with those who are newer to homeschooling?<\/span>  Be gentle with your little ones.  You aren\u2019t going to get it all done in one day, so learn to let it go.  Relax and enjoy your children while they are children.  They will learn the math and the reading and that Mom loves them completely.  Those are equally important and we sometimes forget that in our focus on academics.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight:bold\">What about homeschooling middle school?<\/span>Teach them to be self-directed.  At middle school age they should be able to self-regulate a bit.  If not, then they need to learn it.  Learning how to learn and how to keep yourself on task is the most important thing they learn at this time. Put it together with organization and you\u2019re pretty good.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight:bold\">And how old are you? (just sneakin\u2019 that one in\u2026)<\/span>  Shame on you, for asking me that!  j\/k 34<\/p>\n<p>Peace asked:<br><span style=\"font-weight:bold\">what\u2019s your favorite color? Weird that I don\u2019t know that!<br><\/span> red, bright hot lipstick red<\/p>\n<p>Rachel asked:<br><span style=\"font-weight:bold\">But, how about, if you could, would you go back and change something about your past life, or would you leave it as is, since changing the past, changes our present?<br><\/span> I vacillate back and forth on this one.  There are some things I certainly wish that I had not done.  How about I would not let anyone take pictures of me doing those things?   It wouldn\u2019t change the future except the photographic evidence wouldn\u2019t be floating around.<\/p>\n<p>And I would give myself investment advice, when to sell and when to buy.  I could be a billionaire today with that kind of knowledge.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight:bold\">What is the best book you\u2019ve read in the last five years (we know you\u2019re a SAHM, homeschooling, and you\u2019ve just moved\u2013so I know putting in the last year might be too confining.. \ud83d\ude09 )\u2013fiction and non-fiction?<\/span><br>My two favorite fiction books are <span style=\"font-style:italic\">Gone With the Wind<\/span> and <span style=\"font-style:italic\">The Godfather<\/span>.   I re-read them at least once a year, so they would rank right up there.  My favorite new read has been the <span style=\"font-style:italic\">Christ the Lord<\/span> series by Anne Rice.<\/p>\n<p>My favorite non-fiction was <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Isabella-Spain-Last-Crusader-1451-1504\/dp\/0895553201\/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1226948521&amp;sr=8-1\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Isabella of Spain: The Last Crusader<\/a> by William Walsh.  It was an interesting look at the Inquisition and told it from the Catholic point of view, which was not what I learned in school.  Plus it was heavily researched and had lots of footnotes.  I love non-fiction with footnotes.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A few days ago, I gave readers the chance to ask me anything they wanted to know about me. If you have a question for \u201cthe Mom\u201d then there\u2019s still time to ask. Therese asked:what is your favourite thing about having many children?The laughter. 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