{"id":3534,"date":"2015-01-06T00:25:22","date_gmt":"2015-01-06T05:25:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/rebeccafrech\/?p=3534"},"modified":"2015-01-06T09:07:58","modified_gmt":"2015-01-06T14:07:58","slug":"the-other-teams-are-dead","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rebeccafrech\/2015\/01\/the-other-teams-are-dead.html","title":{"rendered":"The Other Teams Are Dead"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/458\/2015\/01\/team.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3535\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/458\/2015\/01\/team-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"team\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ever since Ella joined the basketball team in the fall, we\u2019ve had an ongoing discussion about <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rebeccafrech\/2014\/10\/an-open-letter-to-parents-expecting-a-crippled-kid.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">her teammates\u2019 disabilities and abortion<\/a>. It\u2019s a topic she keeps returning to as she struggles to make sense of an ugly reality.<\/p>\n<p>The day that she saw the abortion rate for Down Syndrome was around 90%, she asked \u201cWhat\u2019s the abortion rate for spina bifida?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>We looked it up. <a href=\"http:\/\/spectator.org\/articles\/55745\/eugenic-abortion-20\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">The reports vary<\/a> between 64 and nearly 100%.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhat does that mean?\u201d She asked with a furrowed brow.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFor every kid you know with spina bifida, at least 2 are dead, but probably more,\u201d her older brother stated matter of factly.<\/p>\n<p>This past Saturday morning after basketball practice, she picked it up again. \u201cMom, I was counting in my head, and I know 13 kids around my age with spina bifida.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYeah?\u201d I asked. \u201cAnd?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat means that at least 26 are dead. Twenty-six is enough for at least two more basketball teams.\u201d She sighed and turned to look out the car window.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt is.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMom, you know how this weekend we\u2019re going to Oklahoma to play? It\u2019s because we\u2019re the only team in Dallas.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat\u2019s right. That\u2019s why we always travel, or they come here. There\u2019s only one team in most places.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYeah\u2026They\u2019re like us, and it\u2019s just wrong. We all have to travel just to have someone to play, because all the other teams are dead\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I honestly don\u2019t know what to say to that.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>***There are 6.5 million people in the Dallas\/Ft Worth area. Ella\u2019s team of fourteen <strong>1st-8th graders<\/strong> is the only team in its age bracket that we know of. For most of her teammates, the Saturday morning practices\/games are <em>the only time<\/em> they ever see other children in wheelchairs.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ever since Ella joined the basketball team in the fall, we\u2019ve had an ongoing discussion about her teammates\u2019 disabilities and abortion. It\u2019s a topic she keeps returning to as she struggles to make sense of an ugly reality. 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