{"id":4206,"date":"2015-07-28T15:53:53","date_gmt":"2015-07-28T20:53:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/rebeccafrech\/?p=4206"},"modified":"2015-07-29T07:58:10","modified_gmt":"2015-07-29T12:58:10","slug":"what-happened-when-i-went-looking-for-my-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rebeccafrech\/2015\/07\/what-happened-when-i-went-looking-for-my-people.html","title":{"rendered":"What happened when I went looking for my people"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_18518\" class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"font-family: georgia, serif;\">\n<div style=\"font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.8000001907349px;\"><span style=\"color: #339966;\">**This is my last guest post while I\u2019m traveling with Ella. I\u2019ll update you on our trip tomorrow! I hope you enjoy this piece by Heather Renshaw. Check out more by her at <a href=\"http:\/\/realcatholicmom.com\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Real Catholic Mom <\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.8000001907349px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/458\/2015\/07\/CWR15-with-times-2.png\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-4210\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/458\/2015\/07\/CWR15-with-times-2-231x300.png\" alt=\"#CWR15 with times (2)\" width=\"307\" height=\"399\"><\/a><\/div>\n<div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_18518\" class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"font-family: georgia, serif;\">\n<div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_18680\" style=\"font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.8000001907349px;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">Recently, people have noticed\u00a0<\/span><\/span>\n<div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_23170\" class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\">\u200bthat I\u2019m \u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">sort of, um,\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\">\u200bpreoccupied,\u200bwith\u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"> the upcoming women\u2019s conference. Have you heard about it<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_23212\" class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\">\u200b?\u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">? No?<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\">\u200b?\u200b <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">Well, it\u2019s going to be fantastic! The fourth annual\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.catholicwomenrejoice.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" class=\" decorated-link\">Catholic Women Rejoice<\/a>\u00a0conference is happening Saturday, August 29, 2015 with best-selling author and SiriusXM Host\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.conversiondiary.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" class=\" decorated-link\">Jennifer Fulwiler<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/womeninthenewevangelization.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" class=\" decorated-link\">WINE<\/a>\u00a0Founder\u00a0<a id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_18678\" href=\"http:\/\/www.kellywahlquist.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" class=\" decorated-link\">Kelly Wahlquist<\/a>! All the cool kids are going to be there!<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\">\u200b Register today!\u200b <i>End commercial.<br>\n<\/i><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_18677\" style=\"font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.8000001907349px;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_18517\" style=\"font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.8000001907349px;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">Anyway, the bags under my eyes are carrying their own luggage these days, and I\u2019<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">\u2018m not quite my\u00a0<\/span><\/span>\n<div class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\">\u200busual \u200b<\/div>\n<div class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\">\u200bperky <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">self. The to-do lists\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_18515\" class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\">\u200bhave birthed multiple longer to-do lists<\/div>\n<div class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\">\u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">, and<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\">\u200b while the work is plenty,\u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">the laborers are\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\">\u200bexcruciatingly \u200b<span id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_18516\" style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">few.\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_18584\" style=\"font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.8000001907349px;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_18687\" style=\"font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.8000001907349px;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">So, people who care about me ask questions: <\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">\u201cHeather,\u00a0<\/span><\/span>\n<div class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\">\u200bare you getting enough sleep? W<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">hy do you keep doing this to yourself? You have\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\">\u200byoung kids at home\u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">! It\u2019s so much work. And women\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\">\u200bare too busy to go to something like this<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">, anyway.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\">\u200b Why don\u2019t you just give up?\u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">\u201c<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<p>Why, indeed. \u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">My friends, the very best reason to do something is because God asks you to. A close second is because the devil doesn\u2019t want <\/span><\/span>you to do it and whispers in your ear that what you\u2019re doing isn\u2019t worth it, and\u00a0<i>you should<\/i>\u00a0<i>just give up\u200b<\/i>.<\/p>\n<p>\u200bApparently God made me extraordinarily stubborn for such a time as this, because \u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">I <\/span><\/span>will NOT quit, and I will NOT <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">give up<\/span><\/span>.\u200b<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/458\/2015\/07\/Behold-SM-Motto.png\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-4212\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/458\/2015\/07\/Behold-SM-Motto-300x300.png\" alt=\"Behold SM Motto\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span>T<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">ime after time, God has shown me that women <\/span><\/span>absolutely \u200b<b><i>do<\/i><\/b>\u00a0\u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">need conferences like this. And, like the little boy giving <\/span><\/span>Jesus \u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">what he had to help feed the <\/span><\/span>crowds <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">in this past Sunday\u2019s Gospel, I believe God <\/span><\/span>\u200bcan<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"> take what precious <\/span><\/span>little I \u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">give and use it to bless <\/span><\/span>and heal \u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">women,<\/span><\/span> \u200btheir\u200b <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">families, <\/span><\/span>whole <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">communities, and\u00a0<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">our broken and beautiful world<\/span><\/span>, all for \u200bHis greater glory<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u200bIn <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">today\u2019s society, <\/span><\/span>by <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">merely striving to be faithful and joyful<\/span><\/span>, \u200bwhat we Catholic women are doing is <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">completely and <\/span><\/span>\u200btotally <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">counter-cultural. <\/span><\/span>That\u2019s right \u2013 we\u2019re rebels. Th<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">e Pacific NW<\/span><\/span>,\u200b where I live\u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">, <\/span><\/span>\u200bis \u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">consistently named <\/span><\/span>one of \u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">the most unchurched area<\/span><\/span>s\u200b <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">in the nation, <\/span><\/span>with \u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">Catholics a<\/span><\/span>sthe crystal clear <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">minority. And we can feel it. We hear:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou know what causes that, don\u2019t you?<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">\u201d <\/span><\/span>as we shop with our children \u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">in the grocery store.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u201cHow come you \u200blet <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">a bunch of old men in Rome to tell you what to do?\u201d <\/span><\/span>\u200bas we toil \u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">in the workplace.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhy aren\u2019t you taking more time for yourself and going on some exotic vacation?\u201d \u200bas we peruse<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"> social media.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhy do you need to confess your sins to a priest?\u201d as we chat with<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">our friends.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u201cIsn\u2019t it enough to just be a good person?\u201d as we talk with<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">our neighbors.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u201cLive and let live, man,\u201d \u200bas we\u2019re told by<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"> our legislature.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u201cThat may be your truth, but it\u2019s not my truth,\u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">\u201d <\/span><\/span>and, my favorite: \u201cBe more tolerant,\u201d as <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">society in general <\/span><\/span>drifts further and further away from the Truth\u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Between you and me, as <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">a Catholic woman, I have felt <\/span><\/span>very \u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">alone<\/span><\/span> in our society\u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">. I have felt isolated. I have felt <\/span><\/span>\u200bextremely \u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">discouraged. <\/span><\/span>I have believed the lie that I am the only one trying to do this work \u2013 this beautiful, difficult, amazing work \u2013 that Catholic women do. \u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">I have cried myself to sleep, wondering *where my people* <\/span><\/span>we<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">re<\/span><\/span>, and whether I would ever find them.\u200b<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_23219\" class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">\u00a0<\/span>Eventually, though, I decided to quit complaining and do something. Since there wasn\u2019t anything happening in my area where Catholic women could get together and be joyful about being Catholic women, I was going to start something. And so, with no money, no location scouted, and no speakers booked, I began planning the first Catholic women\u2019s conference in the Pacific Northwest with nothing but hope and a telephone. \u200b<\/div>\n<div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_18690\" style=\"font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.8000001907349px;\">\n<p>Catholic Women Rejoice and other conferences like it \u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">exist because <\/span><\/span>someone decided to take a chance on the idea that \u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">women\u00a0<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">need to have a place \u2013 even if it\u2019s only once a year \u2013 to gather together <\/span><\/span>outside of Sunday Mass \u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">and know that <\/span><\/span>\u200bwe <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">are <\/span><\/span>most certainly<i>\u00a0\u200b<\/i><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><i>not\u00a0<\/i>alone<\/span><\/span>, that who we are as Catholic women matters, and that the gift of our faith is something for which we should rejoice!\u200b<\/p>\n<p>At a typical Catholic women\u2019s conference, participants are free to be fully themselves without fear or worry.\u200bA woman can bless herself and her <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">food before eating and no one will give it a second thought. Another can nurse her baby while enjoying a conversation. Someone can be comforted in her struggles with infertility. Another can ask questions about the Pope\u2019s latest encyclical. Another can steal away to the Adoration Chapel for a few quiet, child-free moments with Jesus. No one will be accused of being a Papist. Or a bigot. Or an idol-worshipper. Or a hater. Or a breeder. Or a weirdo.\u00a0We can celebrate Mass, go to confession, and pray. We can sing, laugh, and praise. \u200bWe can ask Mary and the saints and each other to pray for our needs. We can eat good food that is still warm that we didn\u2019t have to prepare ourselves.\u00a0And, you know what? We can have FUN.\u00a0You know, like, <\/span><\/span>smiling \u2019til your face hurts, laughing \u2019til you can\u2019t breathe anymore,\u00a0<b>\u200b<\/b><span id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_23220\" style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><b>fun<\/b>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">I honestly believe that <\/span><\/span>Catholic conferences and eventsuplift women and reinvigorate them t<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">o go back into the world and do God\u2019s will <\/span><\/span>through <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">their individual vocation*, whatever <\/span><\/span>it <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">may be. <\/span><\/span>They remind us that we are not alone. They remind us that we are Catholic. And that we are women \u2013 wonderfully, fearfully, and beautifully made. And because of these things, we are free to truly rejoice. \u200b<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_23164\" class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">\u00a0<\/span>And so, as I continue to wade through my to-do list, I am going to be praying for all the women who will come to Catholic Women Rejoice, or any other conference, for that matter, that in that time and space with their sisters in Christ, they will encounter Jesus and emerge renewed and transformed. And after that? After that I\u2019ll sleep.<\/div>\n<div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_23163\" style=\"font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.8000001907349px;\"><\/div>\n<div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_18695\" style=\"font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.8000001907349px;\">\n<div class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\">\u2014 \u200b<\/div>\n<p>I\u2019m grateful to Rebecca today for letting me share my heart in her space. And I\u2019m indebted to\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.conversiondiary.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" class=\" decorated-link\">Jennifer<\/a>\u00a0and\u00a0<a id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_23155\" href=\"http:\/\/www.hallielord.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" class=\" decorated-link\">Hallie<\/a>\u00a0for\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.edelgathering.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" class=\" decorated-link\">Edel<\/a>, because that\u2019s where I first met Rebecca in real life<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">. <\/span><\/span>Rebecca is one of my \u201cshe gets it people.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So, even if women\u2019s conferences aren\u2019t your <span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">thing or you can\u2019t attend <\/span><\/span>or organize one\u200b<span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\"> this year for whatever reason, I\u2019d be so grateful for your prayers.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\">\u200b And I\u2019ll keep praying for you.\u200b<\/div>\n<p><span id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_18697\" style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">\u00a0\u2764\ufe0f<\/span><\/p>\n<p>*If a woman is a stay-at-home Mom, a single woman, a religious, a work-inside-or-outside-the-home Mom, still currently discerning her vocation, not a Mom, retired, a full-time volunteer, or any other iteration, she is welcome at Catholic Women Rejoice.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_23146\" style=\"font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.8000001907349px;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_23147\" style=\"font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.8000001907349px;\"><span style=\"font-family: georgia,serif;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12.8000001907349px;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/458\/2015\/07\/CWR12.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-4211\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/458\/2015\/07\/CWR12-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"CWR12\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\"><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_23154\" class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"font-family: georgia, serif;\"><\/div>\n<div id=\"yui_3_16_0_1_1438115506399_23145\" class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"font-family: georgia, serif;\"><br style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">\n<div class=\"yiv1658164506gmail_default\" style=\"display: inline;\">Photo credits: Catholic Women Rejoice Conference \u2013 Used with Permission, and from the private collection of Heather Renshaw \u2013 Used with Permission<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>**This is my last guest post while I\u2019m traveling with Ella. 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