{"id":636,"date":"2011-06-03T08:14:00","date_gmt":"2011-06-03T08:14:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/rebeccafrech\/2011\/06\/overheard.html"},"modified":"2014-08-22T15:49:33","modified_gmt":"2014-08-22T20:49:33","slug":"overheard","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rebeccafrech\/2011\/06\/overheard.html","title":{"rendered":"Overheard"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>I was in Ikea two days ago buying shelves when I overheard a conversation between two well dressed 20-somethings.\u00a0 (I admit to following them for a few minutes to catch the end of this exchange.)<\/p>\n<p>Him: You know my mom hasn\u2019t worked in like 6 years?<br>Her: Really?\u00a0 What is she doing instead?<br>Him: Nothing.\u00a0 She just stays home and sponges off my dad.<br>Her: She doesn\u2019t do anything at all?<br>Him: Oh\u2026she like cooks and cleans stuff and spends all his money.<br>Her: And he\u2019s okay with that?<br>Him: He seems to be.\u00a0 I don\u2019t know why though.\u00a0 I\u2019d be p*$$ed as hell. 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