{"id":17468,"date":"2013-09-12T15:21:59","date_gmt":"2013-09-12T19:21:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/religionprof\/?p=17468"},"modified":"2013-09-12T15:21:59","modified_gmt":"2013-09-12T19:21:59","slug":"a-time-to-refrain-from-speaking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/religionprof\/2013\/09\/a-time-to-refrain-from-speaking.html","title":{"rendered":"A Time To Refrain From Speaking"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"http:\/\/rachelheldevans.com\/blog\/ask-derek-webb-response\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Rachel Held Evans posted an interview with Derek Webb on her blog<\/a>. It includes the following wise statement:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I have simply tried to avoid giving short answers to questions for which there are no short answers. \u00a0And I know there is a real temptation in our culture that we must. \u00a0But that is a lie. \u00a0Just because someone asks doesn\u2019t mean you have to answer, especially if goes against what feels like wisdom or against your conscience. \u00a0So I do think there can be moments to make bold public statements, but one must always do so in a way that is loving and measured, never cavalier.<\/p>\n<p>And if you\u2019re ever cornered into a complex situation, do what Jesus did: ask a follow-up. \u00a0Answer with a question. Make sure you understand what\u2019s being asked and who is asking before you even consider answering. \u00a0Anything less is irresponsible and reckless, if not a destructive witness.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/defeatingthedragons.wordpress.com\/2013\/09\/12\/things-you-should-say-to-a-recovering-fundamentalist\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">The blog Defeating the Dragons has some thoughts<\/a> about what you\u00a0<em>should\u00a0<\/em>say to a recovering fundamentalist.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/brucegerencser.net\/2013\/09\/my-son-thinks-i-am-going-to-hell\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Bruce Gerencser<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/triangulations.wordpress.com\/2013\/09\/12\/when-your-child-is-hell-bound\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Sabio Lantz<\/a> blogged about believing someone is going to hell.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rogereolson\/2013\/09\/is-doubt-a-sign-of-spiritual-weakness-or-what-two-new-books-about-the-role-of-doubt-in-christian-living\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">Roger Olson discussed doubt<\/a>. <a href=\"http:\/\/twofriarsandafool.com\/2013\/09\/the-perfect-cop-out\/?utm_source=feedly\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Aric Clark discussed<\/a> the cop-out of Jesus\u2019 perfection.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Rachel Held Evans posted an interview with Derek Webb on her blog. 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