{"id":933,"date":"2010-09-24T12:42:00","date_gmt":"2010-09-24T12:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/religionprof\/2010\/09\/gay-in-indiana-it-gets-better-but-you-still-might-not-get-cupcakes\/"},"modified":"2010-09-24T12:42:00","modified_gmt":"2010-09-24T12:42:00","slug":"gay-in-indiana-it-gets-better-but-you-still-might-not-get-cupcakes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/religionprof\/2010\/09\/gay-in-indiana-it-gets-better-but-you-still-might-not-get-cupcakes.html","title":{"rendered":"Gay in Indiana? 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Because it does. And you make your own cupcakes. (In fact, then it not only gets better for you, but you bring joy to those around you too).<\/p>\n<div class=\"blogger-post-footer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/tracker\/7622297540113836091-3041329208406411341?l=exploringourmatrix.blogspot.com\" alt=\"\"><\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In response to the suicide of a bullied gay teenager in Indiana, a project telling stories of those who have survived such mistreatment when they were younger and gone on to be happy has been started, emphasizing \u201cIt Gets Better\u201d (HT Pharyngula): http:\/\/www.youtube-nocookie.com\/v\/7IcVyvg2Qlo?fs=1&amp;hl=en_US&amp;rel=0 But as Jen McCreight shared, you may not be able to get [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":136,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-933","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Gay in Indiana? 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