{"id":2903,"date":"2014-09-04T15:37:35","date_gmt":"2014-09-04T19:37:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/revangelical\/?p=2903"},"modified":"2014-09-04T15:37:35","modified_gmt":"2014-09-04T19:37:35","slug":"do-your-friends-know-you-love-them","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/revangelical\/2014\/09\/04\/do-your-friends-know-you-love-them.html","title":{"rendered":"Do Your Friends Know You Love Them?"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>I only rarely use this blog space to share other peoples blogs, but today on Donald Millers\u00a0<em>Storyline\u00a0<\/em>website, the fabulous <a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/430\/2014\/09\/18.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-2904\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/430\/2014\/09\/18.jpg\" alt=\"18\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\"><\/a>Shauna Niequist reflects on what it means to be a good friend. It is such a worthwhile and important little post that you would be better for reading. In it, Shauna reflects on a conversation shad had with our husband where they discussed some of their good friends and what makes them so good. From this conversation, she takes a way a very important point. Here\u2019s a bit of what she\u00a0says:<\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #444444;\"><em>\u201cAaron had a college professor who said over and over, \u201cIt doesn\u2019t matter how much you love your kids. What matters is communicating that love in a way that they can understand and feel that love.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"font-weight: 500 !important; color: #313131;\"><em>And the same is true for friendship.<\/em><\/h3>\n<p style=\"color: #444444;\"><em>As it is true for marriages and all relationships.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #444444;\"><em>It\u2019s so easy for me to feel warm, loving thoughts about friends or family members\u2026 and then go on about my day, never reaching out, sending a text, or setting a date to connect.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"color: #444444;\"><em>I think about them all the time, pray for them, and watch the details of their lives spool out over Facebook\u2014first day of school photos, last moments of summer photos. I feel connected and warm, full of affection for these lovely people.<\/em><\/p>\n<h3 style=\"font-weight: 500 !important; color: #313131;\"><em>But how on earth would they know that?\u201d<\/em><\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Read more of these wise and wonderful words by<a href=\"http:\/\/storylineblog.com\/2014\/09\/04\/why-it-doesnt-matter-how-you-feel-about-your-friends\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"> clicking here.\u00a0<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Peace-<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Brandan<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<\/p><\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I only rarely use this blog space to share other peoples blogs, but today on Donald Millers\u00a0Storyline\u00a0website, the fabulous Shauna Niequist reflects on what it means to be a good friend. It is such a worthwhile and important little post that you would be better for reading. 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