A few years ago, I interviewed to serve as the Senior Minister of a church in the Bronx. I was excited about serving as a pastor in the poorest congressional district in the country, plus the \u201cBoogie Down\u201d is the birth place of Hip Hop. Surrounded by the thick cloud of pollution that is the air and decaying housing while being serenaded by blaring sirens and Nuyorican accents, the century old white stone church stood in all of its majesty.<\/p>\n
I rang the door bell. A tall stately woman with a graceful all gray hair cut invited me into the small conference room. The Pastoral Search committee was waiting\u2013five \u201clittle old ladies\u201d dressed in their Sunday morning best on a weekday evening. Directed to the empty chair at the far end of the room, I greeted each one of them with a hand shake and slight genuflection. I anxiously took my seat at the head of the table. \u201cMother,\u201d a small, dainty, if not fragile, yet dignified elder, sat directly across the reckoning table.<\/p>\n
After a softball question from the tall woman who initially welcomed me, \u201cMother\u201d came-a-swinging. With disdain in her voice she asked, \u201cReverend Sekou, what do you think of gay marriage?!\u201d<\/p>\n