{"id":4807,"date":"2016-03-19T10:01:59","date_gmt":"2016-03-19T15:01:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/rhetoricraceandreligion\/?p=4807"},"modified":"2016-03-19T10:22:34","modified_gmt":"2016-03-19T15:22:34","slug":"white-fear-and-the-hate-next-door","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/rhetoricraceandreligion\/2016\/03\/white-fear-and-the-hate-next-door.html","title":{"rendered":"White Fear and the Hate Next Door"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

by Hannah Adair Bonner<\/em><\/p>\n

First Posted at SoulUnbound<\/a><\/p>\n

Recently a Facebook Group was brought to my attention by a friend. Before I could read the title, I was struck by the images of my face photoshopped.<\/p>\n

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\"10513491_1109615835756114_6654035767011217024_n\"The photo of me reading scripture at the celebration service of Bishop Sandra Steiner Ball, her\u00a0Bishop\u2019s crook carefully photoshopped out and my nose elongated as a reference to deceit.<\/p>\n

The photo of me throwing my head back and laughing while holding my friend\u2019s niece, her curly black baby hair rising up to almost touch my chin. The baby had been carefully deleted from the p\"1915561_1109614982422866_1961854907786616656_n\"hoto and my face altered, once again, transforming\u00a0my joyful smile into more of a menacing appearance.<\/p>\n

The first feeling that I had was violation. That someone would search me out, and go through my photos dating back several years. The second feeling that I felt was a cold child, that someone could do all of that and not be impacted in the least by those images of my humanity, my moments of joy and closeness with loved ones. It was chilling that the their sense of hatred and anger was in no way dampened by examining who I am and the people who have made me that person. Instead, they chose to distort some of the most joyful and intimate moments of my life into images of hate.<\/p>\n

There was a mixture of horror and humor from those that saw it. Some finding the pettiness of it amusing, others finding the heartlessness of it frightening. One person commented that it must have been a \u201cband of wretched psychos\u201d who had put the group together.<\/p>\n

What is truly frightening, however, is that it was not psychos. What was truly disturbing was not my altered photos, but their unaltered photos. When you clicked on the link to see the members of the group, the pictures were very similar to my own photos before they had distorted them. The people in the group were someone\u2019s grandmother, someone\u2019s mommy, someone\u2019s husband, someone\u2019s friend. They were your neighbor. They were your church member. They were the person next to you at the rodeo, the woman cheering at your son\u2019s baseball game. They were your brother\u2019s boss, and your sister\u2019s jogging buddy. They were that grandmother whose cookies you can never resist at the church baked good\u2019s fundraiser. They were the Judge who you let kiss your baby when he was running for election.<\/p>\n

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They were not psychos. They were us. They were white America. Terrified of losing \u201cour\u201d country to the people who had lived there before any white people arrived. Terrified that \u201cour\u201d way of doing things would not be allowed to continue. Terrified of what it meant for that way of life\u00a0when a woman like Sandra Bland could expect her legal rights to be respected regardless of her mood or her cigarette; and when a white woman would\u00a0break ranks with\u00a0them to stand with Sandra\u00a0instead,\u00a0calling that same\u00a0Sandra Bland they had linked to drugs and disorderly conduct an evangelist and an activist instead.<\/p>\n

They were white America. Terrified that the word \u201creconciliation\u201d would be torn from the grip and control of the white America who had worked so hard to domesticate it, changing it\u2019s meaning to \u201cpeace\u201d and the ability to live together in comfort; terrified that the word would be taken back by the same kind of people who had used it to indicate radical change during the Civil Rights Movement of the 60\u2019s; terrified that reconciliation, once set free, would be reunited inseparably with its partner justice, making it impossible to have one without the other.<\/p>\n

Our nation is on the brink of a change. People are fighting for their lives to be valued, while others are fighting back, afraid of what that will mean for our way of life. There is confusion, as people grapple with seeing things they do not understand.<\/p>\n

White people who are any measure of woke: talk to your neighbors, to your brother, to your grandmother; talk to the woman who\u00a0is proud of her cookies, the woman who is proud of her grandkids, and the woman who is proud of her guns.<\/p>\n

If our country misses the opportunity to make this nation a more just place\u00a0that honors God by honoring the sacredness of each of God\u2019s children, it will not be because of those on the fringes yelling out the N-word into the open air. It will be because of us, our grandmothers, our brothers, and our children. It will be because\u00a0enough of us were silent when the time came to speak up. It will be because enough of us quietly stood still when it was time to step out and break ranks to go\u00a0where God called us.<\/p>\n

That does not\u00a0have to be the story of white people in America. We can change this. We can make a difference.<\/p>\n

Hannah Adair Bonner is the curator of The Shout: a spoken-word poetry focused artivism movement seeking to nurture a community of multi-ethnic, multi-generation, justice-seeking, solidarity-building people. She serves on the staff of St. John\u2019s Downtown in Houston, Texas, and is ordained in the United Methodist Church. She graduated from Duke Divinity School and Furman University, but truly received her education from friends like you.<\/em><\/p>\n

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