Do you trust God\u2019s timing? The path to spiritual maturity requires us to surrender our selfish deadlines. <\/span><\/p>\n When Mary and Martha sent news to Jesus that their brother, Lazarus, was about to die, Jesus didn\u2019t respond the way his friends expected. He actually snubbed their request. The Bible says when Jesus heard that Lazarus was sick, \u201cHe then stayed two days longer in the place where He was\u201d (John 11:6, NASB).<\/p>\n For Mary and Martha, those were two very long days.<\/p>\n Doubts tormented them. What kind of friend was Jesus, anyway? Why did He ignore their urgent plea? Why didn\u2019t He drop everything and rush to their aid? Mary was especially frustrated and distraught about Jesus\u2019 seemingly insensitive delay.<\/p>\n When Jesus finally arrived in Bethany\u2014four days after Lazarus died\u2014a shroud of gloom covered the village. Everybody was in mourning. Mary was overwhelmed by grief and disappointment. Her faith was as cold as Lazarus\u2019 corpse. <\/p>\n Mary didn\u2019t even want to talk to Jesus. This woman who was known as a passionate disciple of the Lord stayed in the house when her sister went outside to ask Jesus why He took so long (see v. 20). We don\u2019t know exactly what Mary was doing in the house. Most likely she was sulking, maybe even struggling with feelings of anger toward Jesus because He didn\u2019t come when she called.<\/p>\n You may relate to Mary. Many of us get stuck in this same place of disillusionment. We get upset and confused when God doesn\u2019t work according to our timetable.<\/p>\n Perhaps you have been asking Jesus to intervene in your crisis. You may need Him to rescue a wayward child, heal your body, provide for a financial need, restore a broken relationship or salvage a dream that is on its deathbed. It may seem that Jesus missed His golden opportunity\u2014or that He was so busy meeting the needs of others that He just dropped you from His priority list.<\/p>\n Like Mary of Bethany, you may feel that Jesus waited too long. It\u2019s over. Your problem is now so serious, and your dream so lifeless, that Jesus cannot help you.<\/p>\n When we face these frustrating delays, we automatically assume that He is denying us, neglecting us or rejecting us. So we throw a childish pity party. We go in our rooms, close our doors, shut out the pain and stay as far away from Jesus as possible.<\/p>\n We find it too difficult to pray when we are in a faith crisis. The enemy of our souls tells us that Jesus doesn\u2019t care, that our prayers are meaningless and that there is no reward for believing in Him. Some of us, if we have melancholy tendencies, also beat ourselves up with the familiar \u201cI guess I just don\u2019t have enough faith\u201d line.<\/p>\n Thankfully Mary did not stay in her self-made prison of depression. The Bible says that when Jesus came to her house and got close enough to Lazarus\u2019 tomb to smell the stench, Mary ran to him and knelt at His feet\u2014the place where she began her journey of discipleship (see Luke 10:39). After all the moping, she set aside the blame games and returned to the only place where life\u2019s struggles make sense.<\/p>\n She knelt in His presence, not to ask Him why He let Lazarus die but simply to gain strength from being with Him.<\/p>\n She decided to grow up. She left behind the whining immaturity that demands Jesus must act a certain way. She put her trust in Him afresh, letting go of selfish expectations. When she surrendered her life to Him that day, she was saying that she would follow Him not only in the good times but also on the darkest days when she couldn\u2019t see His love through the clouds of death, suffering and pain.<\/p>\n There, at Jesus\u2019 feet, Mary caught a glimpse of Jesus like she\u2019d never seen Him before. He wept for His friend Lazarus, and then He commanded his lifeless body to come out of the tomb. Mary would have missed the miracle if she had stayed in seclusion. She needed to see with her own eyes that God\u2019s delays are not denials\u2014and that Jesus\u2019 timing is perfect even when it seems He has forgotten us.<\/p>\n Do you feel as if Jesus has ignored your request? Does it seem as if your message to Him was intercepted? Have you been sinking into discouragement because your dream has died\u2014and Jesus doesn\u2019t care?<\/p>\n Run back to Him and take your place at His feet. True disciples know that life operates on God\u2019s schedule, not ours. Press through your doubts, surrender your deadlines, renounce your impatience and renew your trust in the Lord, who is the sovereign Lord over your circumstances.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Do you trust God\u2019s timing? The path to spiritual maturity requires us to surrender our selfish deadlines. When Mary and Martha sent news to Jesus that their brother, Lazarus, was about to die, Jesus didn\u2019t respond the way his friends expected. He actually snubbed their request. The Bible says when Jesus heard that Lazarus was […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1596,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-789","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ricciardelli"],"yoast_head":"\n