{"id":2196,"date":"2023-06-14T10:51:10","date_gmt":"2023-06-14T16:51:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/scatteringsunshine\/?p=2196"},"modified":"2023-06-14T22:52:56","modified_gmt":"2023-06-15T04:52:56","slug":"infertility-miracles-and-gods-love-my-motherhood-story","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/scatteringsunshine\/2023\/06\/infertility-miracles-and-gods-love-my-motherhood-story\/","title":{"rendered":"Infertility, Miracles, And God&#8217;s Love: My Motherhood Story"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I was a honeymoon baby. For those unfamiliar with the term, I was born exactly 9 months after my parents got married. I never anticipated that I would have any struggles with infertility or that I would need a miracle to get to be a mother. When I got married I assumed I needed to be careful so I could get to know my husband a little bit before we started our family.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My parents never told me that my grandmothers on both sides had multiple miscarriages. And my mother\u2019s mother even struggled to have babies at all. Of course that wasn\u2019t discussed 20 years ago so I was shocked when it happened to me.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Miscarriage<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1886 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/805\/2022\/01\/knit-869221_640-1-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\">Talking about this is so hard. But a year into our marriage we were suddenly expecting. And I was so excited! I went to my first OB appointment and my hormone levels were a little low, so they had me start progesterone as a precaution. But at my 12-week appointment suddenly there was no heartbeat.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I was stupid and wanted to avoid surgery. I had heard there were risks with the D&amp;C procedure, that I could get scar tissue and have a hard time having other kids. So I elected to stop the hormones and let the pregnancy terminate naturally. NEVER DO THAT.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even an early miscarriage means <em>labor<\/em><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Dr didn\u2019t mention that it would take 2 weeks to pass and that I would go through actual labor. LABOR! It was horrible! Ibuprofen does nothing for actual labor. Of course, Murphy\u2019s law, it all happened on the weekend when the Dr was closed. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I remember laying on the floor just sure I was going to die. It hurt so much!! It felt like adding insult to injury after carrying a dead baby for two weeks. I was not in a good place. So far my journey to motherhood sucked.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We were at BYU at the time, in a congregation that only had newly married students. There were a LOT of babies and pregnant mommies in our group. Fortunately, my husband graduated from BYU and we moved 2,000 miles for his first job. It was a relief to get out in the real world and try to clear my head.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Moving to Philadelphia<\/span><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_2198\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2198\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-2198\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/805\/2023\/06\/philadelphia-g5066d07fd_640-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"Philadelphia skyline\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-2198\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Philadelphia skyline<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We joined a wonderful congregation in Philadelphia. They welcomed us like family and we loved being there. We still have many friends from that time. We were happy on the outside, but on the inside, I was broken. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I missed my baby who was never born. And to make matters worse, I lost two more babies in Philadelphia. But we were in an amazing place for infertility help. I went to a Dr at Thomas Jefferson University Hospital.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">She was an amazing doctor. And she found the problem, but it wasn\u2019t as easy to solve as I\u2019d hoped. We tried everything until the Dr told me all I could do to become a mother was to do <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/In_vitro_fertilisation\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">IVF<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I was devastated when I got the news. At the time I worked in an office with a great lady who had been doing IVF. They had done 7 rounds with no success. And they had mortgaged everything they owned in the process. I couldn\u2019t do that to our family.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bad News<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We went home and prayed. I knew that I wanted to be a mother. But I also knew myself and if I started doing IVF that I would keep going. I was very goal-oriented. About that time I found a magazine article about a couple who had decided to get off the infertility merry-go-round. And I had to admit to myself just how hard that whole thing had been.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The pills, the tests, the roller coaster of emotions each month as I hoped to be pregnant just to be disappointed. I realized I needed space from it all. And I know my husband did too. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">He is such a good guy. I offered to let him go find another wife when I found out I couldn\u2019t have kids. I wanted him to be happy. But he stayed, knowing it may never be our blessing. And I am so grateful he did.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Priesthood Blessing<\/span><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_113\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-113\" style=\"width: 199px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-113\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/805\/2017\/10\/lds-meetinghouse-provo-utah-1183788-gallery-199x300.jpg\" alt=\"LDS meetinghouse in Provo UT\" width=\"199\" height=\"300\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-113\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">LDS Meetinghouse<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We needed God\u2019s guidance, and neither of us felt like we could hear clear answers anymore on this topic. So we went to our Bishop for a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.churchofjesuschrist.org\/study\/new-era\/2012\/07\/the-importance-of-priesthood-blessings?lang=eng\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Priesthood Blessing<\/a>. The Lord spoke to us through the Bishop and let us know that He needed our service. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">God promised us that if we would serve Him that He would bless us with a baby. I was so thrilled to have a clear way forward that I practically floated out of our Bishop\u2019s office.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A week later my husband was asked to be part of a newly formed congregation for the Young Single Adults in the Philadelphia northeast area. It was the beginning of a beautiful time in our lives. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We were the same age as the Young Single Adults we got to serve. My husband was in the leadership and I got to be a \u201cWard Mom\u201d to girls my age. It was kind of surprising, but SO fun!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Serving and Loving it<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In the <a href='https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/library\/mormonism' target='_blank'>LDS church<\/a>, each congregation is led by 3 men, and this congregation also got 3 moms, the wives of these men. We had weekly after-church luncheons, weekly \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/www.churchofjesuschrist.org\/study\/manual\/gospel-topics\/home-evening?lang=eng\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Family Home Evening<\/a>\u201d activities, and countless adventures with the congregation. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We got to participate in dances and regional conferences. And most importantly we got to make some amazing friends and watch so many people we love form their families.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I even got to draw on my education and taught a class we jokingly called \u201cdating for dummies\u201d. It was relationship focused and a wonderful way to lighten the stress around dating. It was a great experience serving those wonderful people. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And a couple of years into our adventure I found out I was pregnant. It was a total shock! We hadn\u2019t been trying, and I had stopped going to the Doctor when we had gotten our blessing. It was a complete miracle!<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A Perfect Miracle<\/span><\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1905\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1905\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1905\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/805\/2022\/03\/mother-g408ef39f0_640-300x169.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1905\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Motherhood was my miracle.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I learned enough through my miscarriages to know that as soon as I had a positive test I needed to get to the Dr., and she was so supportive and excited for me. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I had a lot of imaging and attention for the first trimester and it was such a beautiful thing to see my tiny miracle baby wiggling on the ultrasound. When my doctor released me to go see a regular OBGYN I was beyond thrilled!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My son was born a healthy and beautiful full-term baby. The Lord had held up His end of the bargain. And the amazing thing? We never once felt like our service to God was hard. It wasn\u2019t a trial, or difficult in any way. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It was a time full of love and adventure. And it opened my eyes to the pattern of all our service to God. God is so full of love and so giving with His blessings, that serving Him is never a trial. I have my wonderful miracle baby as a daily reminder that God keeps His promises. And I know He will do the same for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I was a honeymoon baby. For those unfamiliar with the term, I was born exactly 9 months after my parents got married. 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So I want to be a support to those parents who are trying to figure out their child, and how best to support them. My wonderful son stretches me and helps me grow every day. I love being his mother and the things that make him unique. In 2020, every autism service stopped. So I got trained to be an RBT (Low-level autism therapist) with BehaviorUniversity.com. It has made homeschooling and doing at-home ABA easier as I understand my son better. They have some courses for parents to help them understand autism better, and I highly recommend them if you are searching. We have been home-schooling off and on for 6 years now. And it's wonderful to see my son thriving. Education and background Although my degree is not in education, I do have degrees from BYU Idaho and Southern Utah University in public relations, interpersonal communication, and marketing. I was lucky enough to get to teach a couple of freshman classes at SUU as part of my senior project. I have the best memories of those times. And it showed me how much I love to teach. While at SUU I was on the debate team. I wasn\u2019t great, but I loved the team and the feeling of unity we had. As a member of the Lambda Delta Signa sorority, I spent a year as VP of my chapter. I served on Institute Council and in leadership with my choir. And I was a member of the Lambda Pi Eta honor society. Funny enough, I was nominated as SUU\u2019s personality of the year in my senior year because I was so involved When my son was small I was part of the PTA at bus school \u00a0I even served on the PTA board and taught art classes to the kids. \u00a0I also volunteered to help out in the cafeteria. And I was a \u2018recess duty\u2019 meaning I got to be outside as a responsible adult during recess I love to write and wrote for LDSblogs.com as Abby Christianson and as Patty Sampson for many years. I took over editing LDS Blogs when our beloved editor Terri Bittner passed away suddenly from brain cancer in 2017. Then in 2020, LDSblogs.com stopped publishing after the pandemic affected their funding. But they are still online and some great stories are there if you are interested. I'm a lifelong member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I've been married for 23 years, and a mother for 15 years. I love people and creating in any capacity I can. 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