{"id":3604,"date":"2025-04-07T20:35:06","date_gmt":"2025-04-08T02:35:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/scatteringsunshine\/?p=3604"},"modified":"2025-04-08T16:44:52","modified_gmt":"2025-04-08T22:44:52","slug":"autism-survivor-and-the-church","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/scatteringsunshine\/2025\/04\/autism-survivor-and-the-church\/","title":{"rendered":"Autism, Survivor, and Seeing the Gifts in the Struggle"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><h2>Autism, Survivor, And The Church<\/h2>\n<p>I\u2019m an autism mom. My son was diagnosed when he was 6, and it has been a long journey trying to find what helps him overcome his challenges. So when I saw <a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/search?q=survivor+autism+clip&amp;oq=survivor++autism&amp;gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUqDQgBEAAYgwEYsQMYgAQyDQgAEAAYgwEYsQMYgAQyDQgBEAAYgwEYsQMYgAQyBwgCEAAYgAQyBwgDEAAYgAQyCAgEEAAYFhgeMggIBRAAGBYYHjIICAYQABgWGB4yCAgHEAAYFhgeMggICBAAGBYYHjIICAkQABgWGB7SAQg2ODM4ajBqN6gCALACAA&amp;sourceid=chrome&amp;ie=UTF-8#fpstate=ive&amp;vld=cid:017a4b33,vid:CbgXyK9CHZ0,st:0\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">this clip from the television show Survivor<\/a> where Joe stepped out of his team to comfort Eva, I got emotional. It meant the world to me to get to see Eva, who also has autism, succeed. And I loved how the host, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/jeffprobst\/?hl=en\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Jeff Probst,<\/a> also got emotional.<\/p>\n<p>The best part of this clip is how Eva explained what an autistic episode of overwhelm looks and feels like. I was so proud of the show for allowing Eva to cope in the way she needed to cope. She had gotten overwhelmed during a very difficult challenge. She completed the challenge, but it put her over the edge, and her system got out of whack. As she screamed and screamed, Joe left his team with the host\u2019s permission and comforted her. He helped her regulate again and calm down.<\/p>\n<h2>Regulating<\/h2>\n<p>Seeing an autism meltdown in an adult is a little different than one in a child. But it\u2019s often confusing. And I am so proud of Eva for explaining what was going on, and why she had been screaming. Often, when kids have autism meltdowns, people assume it\u2019s a temper tantrum. But the disregulation shows up when you give the child what they were asking for, and the tears don\u2019t stop. They have tipped over the edge and need help to come back down from the overwhelm that envelopes their system.<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Watch the scene on Surivor\u2019s YouTube Channel.<\/h4>\n<div align=\"center\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/CbgXyK9CHZ0?si=5o1WO3LrxkiAlszH\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><\/h4>\n<p>We have been on this autism journey now for 10 years. When my son was first diagnosed, his Primary teachers had no idea how to help him. But the <a href='https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/library\/mormonism' target='_blank'>Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints<\/a> has been very progressive in its efforts to help kids on the autism spectrum. I was recently given a new church job, called a disability specialist. That job has never existed before. I get to sit in Sunday School and see if there is something the Church can do to help make services easier for every disability.<\/p>\n<h2>The Church is improving its support<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_3625\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3625\" style=\"width: 780px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-3625\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/805\/2025\/04\/bible-2110439_1280-300x200.jpg\" alt='Image by &lt;a href=\"https:\/\/pixabay.com\/users\/stempow-4705662\/?utm_source=link-attribution&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_campaign=image&amp;utm_content=2110439\"&gt;stempow&lt;\/a&gt; from &lt;a href=\"https:\/\/pixabay.com\/\/?utm_source=link-attribution&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_campaign=image&amp;utm_content=2110439\"&gt;Pixabay&lt;\/a&gt;' width=\"780\" height=\"520\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3625\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Bible at church Image by <a href=\"https:\/\/pixabay.com\/users\/stempow-4705662\/?utm_source=link-attribution&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_campaign=image&amp;utm_content=2110439\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">stempow<\/a> from <a href=\"https:\/\/pixabay.com\/\/?utm_source=link-attribution&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_campaign=image&amp;utm_content=2110439\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Pixabay<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>For example, we added microphones in both Priesthood and Relief Society meetings, so that those who are hard of hearing can hear comments from the class. And the teacher now speaks into a microphone no matter which room they are in. It makes it much easier to hear the lesson.<\/p>\n<p>In Primary when my son was young, they used to place the piano right in front of the youngest kids. It was enough to overwhelm my son in moments. Now they have changed how the room is laid out. Primary rooms are long and narrow. And instead of having the \u201cfront\u201d of the room be on the narrow end, it\u2019s on the wide end. And the kids no longer sit right by the piano.<\/p>\n<p>The kids now sit in a different order entirely. They used to sit in rows by age, with the littlest kids in the front row, and each row getting older as you go back. They would have the teacher sit with their class somewhere in the row. Now the teachers sit in the back row, and the kids sit all together. The little kids are mixed into the older kids, and it\u2019s an every other seat situation. It goes older kid, little kid, older kid, little kid, all down the rows.<\/p>\n<h2>Primary is better<\/h2>\n<p>This seating arrangement allows the older kids to be an example and support for the younger kids. Sometimes kids need each other, and a kid is often a better support than an adult. And no longer are there many, many rows of chairs. With the room set up width-wise wise there are only 3 rows, and everyone is close to the front and close to the action. I also noticed there are figit toys available for any kid that needs it. And even though there are still adult leaders who will likely never really understand, at least they are trying.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m proud of the Church and Survivor for being progressive and inclusive. Autism is not going anywhere, and in fact more kids are diagnosed today than ever before. If it is caused by an environmental factor, I hope they find the cause. But I suspect it\u2019s genetic. We have at least one or two people on the autism spectrum in my family in every generation. And for our family the autism is accompanied by a genius-level understanding of whatever special interest the individual loves.<\/p>\n<p>I know some suffer from autism that is debilitating, and I know some of those folks. It\u2019s devastating for their families. But I also know of miracles where some individuals who have been trapped in their bodies have <a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.com\/search?q=autistic+girl+communicates+with+computer&amp;oq=autistic+girl+comm&amp;gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUqBwgBEAAYgAQyBggAEEUYOTIHCAEQABiABDIICAIQABgWGB4yCAgDEAAYFhgeMggIBBAAGBYYHjIICAUQABgWGB4yCAgGEAAYFhgeMggIBxAAGBYYHjIICAgQABgWGB4yCAgJEAAYFhge0gEIOTM1N2owajeoAgCwAgA&amp;sourceid=chrome&amp;ie=UTF-8#fpstate=ive&amp;vld=cid:22c1416d,vid:p92Pcmkn7GA,st:0\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">found ways to communicate<\/a>. And those stories are truly beautiful. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints teaches us that we are all children of a loving Heavenly Father, who sent us to Earth to learn and grow. And some of our growth includes huge challenges.<\/p>\n<h2>Overcoming Autism<\/h2>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1060\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1060\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1060\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/805\/2018\/07\/hands-2847508_640.jpg\" alt='Image by &lt;a href=\"https:\/\/pixabay.com\/users\/jarmoluk-143740\/?utm_source=link-attribution&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_campaign=image&amp;utm_content=2847508\"&gt;Michal Jarmoluk&lt;\/a&gt; from &lt;a href=\"https:\/\/pixabay.com\/\/?utm_source=link-attribution&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_campaign=image&amp;utm_content=2847508\"&gt;Pixabay&lt;\/a&gt;' width=\"640\" height=\"426\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1060\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Hands of friendship Image by <a href=\"https:\/\/pixabay.com\/users\/jarmoluk-143740\/?utm_source=link-attribution&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_campaign=image&amp;utm_content=2847508\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Michal Jarmoluk<\/a> from <a href=\"https:\/\/pixabay.com\/\/?utm_source=link-attribution&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_campaign=image&amp;utm_content=2847508\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Pixabay<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I feel like those who have autism must be extremely strong souls. Since our lives are supposed to be a challenge, these souls could handle extra challenges. I still feel like autism is unfair and heartbreaking in many ways. But my son can see through facades and see people\u2019s hearts so easily. I feel it\u2019s a compensating gift of autism.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s one more thing I want to point out. Autism comes with gifts. We used to call them my son\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/scatteringsunshine\/2017\/11\/autism-brings-you-superpowers\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cSuper Powers\u201d<\/a>. He is incredibly gifted with animals. They just love him! I once witnessed a baby chick fall asleep as my 5-year-old held it in his hands. Can you imagine? Most baby chicks can\u2019t get away from kids fast enough. They are too unpredictable. But my son has a gentle energy about him that animals are drawn to.<\/p>\n<p>Another of my son\u2019s \u201cSuper Powers\u201d is that his mind can see how things work, like a 3D model moving in front of his face. I suspect it\u2019s part of his ADHD, because I can see things like that too, and I have ADHD. He can also hear any engine and tell you what make and model just passed by without looking at it. It\u2019s the same with fire alarms. He can tell you the model and manufacturer and even what the pattern of beeps is called. I don\u2019t have that gift.<\/p>\n<h2>The World is learning<\/h2>\n<p>I first wrote about my son\u2019s autism, giving him superpowers, in 2016. At that time, my article was the only one online that discussed anything positive in Autism. Today as I searched for the link for this article, I see SO many other publications have seen the light. Even <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/the-forgotten-women\/202307\/is-autism-a-superpower\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Psychology Today<\/a> has acknowledged that autism includes superpowers. It\u2019s a beautiful thing to see the world wake up.<\/p>\n<p>There are so many challenges with autism. Seeing the gifts buried in the challenges is a breath of fresh air. And this episode of Survivor was a breath of fresh air for me. Thank you to the producers and host of the show who helped everyone get a glimpse of overcoming the challenges of autism. You have made the world a better place.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Autism, Survivor, And The Church I\u2019m an autism mom. My son was diagnosed when he was 6, and it has been a long journey trying to find what helps him overcome his challenges. 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I'm Abby Christianson, a transplanted Mormon living the dream. In my life, I've lived in seven different US states and visited other countries. And the thing that amazes me is that in every place I've been the LDS (Mormon) church is the same. The people have hearts of gold, and their love for the Savior is unchanging. But for some reason, people still think Mormons are weird, backward, and sometimes even Amish. I'm here to try to help clear up the misconceptions about Mormons by showing you that we are just like you. We love our families, eat junk food, love movies, and spend time with friends. And just like you, our faith and values go deep. So join me as I keep trying to scatter sunshine everywhere I go. And hopefully, you'll find your faith in Christ strengthened along the way. Autism and more I'm also here to talk about Autism, and being an Autism Mom. There were few resources online when my son was diagnosed. So I want to be a support to those parents who are trying to figure out their child, and how best to support them. My wonderful son stretches me and helps me grow every day. I love being his mother and the things that make him unique. In 2020, every autism service stopped. So I got trained to be an RBT (Low-level autism therapist) with BehaviorUniversity.com. It has made homeschooling and doing at-home ABA easier as I understand my son better. They have some courses for parents to help them understand autism better, and I highly recommend them if you are searching. We have been home-schooling off and on for 6 years now. And it's wonderful to see my son thriving. Education and background Although my degree is not in education, I do have degrees from BYU Idaho and Southern Utah University in public relations, interpersonal communication, and marketing. I was lucky enough to get to teach a couple of freshman classes at SUU as part of my senior project. I have the best memories of those times. And it showed me how much I love to teach. While at SUU I was on the debate team. I wasn\u2019t great, but I loved the team and the feeling of unity we had. As a member of the Lambda Delta Signa sorority, I spent a year as VP of my chapter. I served on Institute Council and in leadership with my choir. And I was a member of the Lambda Pi Eta honor society. Funny enough, I was nominated as SUU\u2019s personality of the year in my senior year because I was so involved When my son was small I was part of the PTA at bus school \u00a0I even served on the PTA board and taught art classes to the kids. \u00a0I also volunteered to help out in the cafeteria. And I was a \u2018recess duty\u2019 meaning I got to be outside as a responsible adult during recess I love to write and wrote for LDSblogs.com as Abby Christianson and as Patty Sampson for many years. I took over editing LDS Blogs when our beloved editor Terri Bittner passed away suddenly from brain cancer in 2017. Then in 2020, LDSblogs.com stopped publishing after the pandemic affected their funding. But they are still online and some great stories are there if you are interested. I'm a lifelong member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I've been married for 23 years, and a mother for 15 years. I love people and creating in any capacity I can. I hope you'll join me as we navigate this crazy world we live in.","url":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/scatteringsunshine\/author\/achristianson\/"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/scatteringsunshine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3604","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/scatteringsunshine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/scatteringsunshine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/scatteringsunshine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3521"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/scatteringsunshine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3604"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/scatteringsunshine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3604\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/scatteringsunshine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2940"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/scatteringsunshine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3604"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/scatteringsunshine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3604"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/scatteringsunshine\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3604"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}