{"id":3627,"date":"2016-04-13T10:15:16","date_gmt":"2016-04-13T14:15:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/sermonsfromthemound\/?p=3627"},"modified":"2016-04-13T10:15:16","modified_gmt":"2016-04-13T14:15:16","slug":"creative-endarkenment-embracing-silence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/sermonsfromthemound\/2016\/04\/creative-endarkenment-embracing-silence\/","title":{"rendered":"Creative Endarkenment: Embracing Silence"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>

\"By
A cup of tea.
By Laurel F from Seattle, WA (Tea) [CC BY-SA 2.0<\/a>], via Wikimedia Commons<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>I have a friend who is at the start of a new relationship. We get together for coffee every once in a while so I can live vicariously through her. Yesterday I was impatiently sipping at my dark roast. \u201cSo\u2026how was the date last night?\u201d<\/p>\n

She looked down as she poured her tea. \u201cIt was\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cNot good?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cOh, no,\u201d she said quickly. \u201cReally good. Really good. Just\u2026different. Than what I expected. What I know.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cOkay girlfriend, you\u2019re gonna have to explain,\u201d I said, laughing and burning my tongue again.<\/p>\n

She went on to tell me that when she had arrived at her date\u2019s place, she was feeling really low. \u201cJust down. Not feeling it. At all.\u201d At first, her new honey had tried to suss out what was going on, asking her why she was upset, what she was feeling. \u201cI couldn\u2019t even find words,\u201d she said. \u201cI was just\u2026down. You know? But then\u2026he stopped asking. And he just\u2026held me. There. On the couch. So I could curl up in the dark of him, in the silence, and move into the feeling.\u201d She looked at me, eyes wide with the wonder of it. \u201cAnd he just stayed there, with me, not saying anything, letting me feel however I needed to feel.\u201d<\/p>\n

She leaned back and sighed.\u00a0\u201cOh my god it was incredible.\u201d<\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

Experience exists before we put it into words. Language is translation. Sometimes we jump to expression quickly, reflexively, as a way to navigate through life. As my friend experienced it the other night, silence can be a gift we give each other that allows us to more fully feel. A loving silence can nurture tentative growth which might freeze or fizzle under a barrage of questions and suggestions.<\/p>\n

Mostly we move in the opposite direction. We do our best to push silence away with noise. We exist in a time, in a culture (in an election season) of blare and scare, of too many words. Incessant speech flattens and cheapens language. Without silence, we have no choice but to turn up the volume on what we say, in order to be heard.<\/p>\n

Daring to hold silent and listen<\/em> to experiences not our own, beliefs not our own, anger and pain not our own\u2026this is scary stuff, agreed. Eat a good breakfast before you set out. But imagine, just for a moment, \u00a0if we waited an extra day or three before posting that meme or responding to that blog.\u00a0Imagine\u00a0if we could dare a few minutes of silent meditation before entering the fray.<\/p>\n

As a place to start to consider for yourself the power of silence, may I suggest finding the nearest copy of Karina \"BlackHeartBlackHeart<\/a>\u2019s A Witch\u2019s Book of Silence<\/a>. (*note for my non-witchy readers: you don\u2019t have to be a witch to read this book and distill some awesome peace and power from it. I promise.)<\/p>\n

BlackHeart approaches silence from many perspectives\u2014she explores her theme through many lenses but this passage speaks directly to our moment:<\/p>\n

\u00a0In silence, we study words. We develop the capacity to choose our words with care, sifting and sorting them, measuring them for truth, honor and effectiveness. We learn to withhold negative, irresponsible speech, conserving the power of the word for more worthy endeavors.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\u201cConserving the power of the word for more worthy endeavors\u2026\u201d Doesn\u2019t that sound\u2026good?<\/p>\n

Integrity involves knowing not only when to speak, but when to remain silent.<\/p>\n

***<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to note here that there are many flavors and versions of silence. I am specifically NOT talking about silence that is coerced, forced or threatened. Keeping secrets against one\u2019s will, or to the harm of ourselves or another, cannot increase our power nor our integrity. There are times to break silence. There are times to support and act as witness to the breaking of silence.<\/p>\n

Most of the time, though, we merely talk and talk to push silence and the scarier gifts it brings away. BlackHeart understands all too well why we fear silence and fill up the void with 24\/7 news cycles, noise, chatter, with tell alls and listicles and grumpy cats and bullet points. Silence, she writes, has to do with<\/p>\n

the powers of the north, the deep earth, the dark moon and death itself. We must be willing to name and openly confront our fear of these dark powers.<\/p>\n

We recoil because what lies within and beyond them exists in the Mystery. Maps are useless. Check lists disintegrate. When we step off the well worn path without flashlight or trail guide, we are left to our own devices: Instinct, intuition, and the Wild Soul\u2019s starlit vision.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

There is no avoiding this truth: Silence is the path to the self. As Howard Thurman<\/a> said,<\/p>\n

\u00a0There is something in every one of you that waits and listens for the sound of the genuine in yourself. It is the only true guide you will ever have. And if you cannot hear it, you will all of your life spend your days on the ends of strings that somebody else pulls.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

It takes courage to listen for that true guide. BlackHeart acknowledges this.<\/p>\n

In silence we seek knowledge of our true will. In silence, we gather courage so we might dare utter that truth into being. In silence we await our words return to us made fully manifest.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

To listen for the genuine in yourself is to learn to discern, there in the dark, the gleam of your own unique gifts and power. And this is to dare a radically creative life. Creative endarkenment exists in the cauldron of that silence that turns truth into being. Brainstorming, workshopping, sharing and publishing are all good and necessary parts of the creative life. But at heart, at root, at some point the creative soul closes the door and returns again to her own deep well.<\/p>\n

And, in silence, the work begins once more.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/p>\n

\"mama<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/p>\n

(Looks like I could be on to something here<\/a>.)<\/p>\n

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