On offendedness<\/a><\/p>\nTaking offense and getting angry aren\u2019t exactly the same thing. Anger has to do with the intolerable difference between what is<\/em> and what ought<\/em> to be, which is to say, with injustice. Offendedness has to do with my own discomfort with the difference between how I feel and how I\u2019d prefer<\/em> to feel. Offendedness makes it all about me.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Anger has to do with the intolerable difference between what is and what ought to be, which is to say, with injustice. Offendedness has to do with my own discomfort with the difference between how I feel and how I’d prefer to feel.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":141,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16308","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"\n
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