If an opinion contrary to your own makes you angry, that is a sign that you are subconsciously aware of having no good reason for thinking as you do. If some one maintains that two and two are five, or that Iceland is on the equator, you feel pity rather than anger, unless you know so little of arithmetic or geography that his opinion shakes your own contrary conviction. \u2026 So whenever you find yourself getting angry about a difference of opinion, be on your guard; you will probably find, on examination, that your belief is going beyond what the evidence warrants.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
I think Russell is correct here about anger \u201cabout a difference of opinion.\u201d Such anger may, indeed, be a sign of some subconscious irrationality.<\/p>\n
But most anger is not caused by or directed at \u201can opinion contrary to your own.\u201d Most anger is a response to and a response against<\/em> something less abstract and more tangible, actual and factual: Injustice, oppression, harm, cruelty, pain, deprivation, suffering, want, intimidation, bullying, tyranny, evil.<\/p>\nIn response to and response against such harms, anger is not irrational, it is obligatory. It is precisely \u201cwhat the evidence warrants.\u201d<\/p>\n
When confronted with injustice, cruelty and harm, a lack<\/em> of anger \u201cis a sign that you are subconsciously\u201d failing to love those who are suffering from that injustice, cruelty and harm. If you love them, then you ought to be angry \u2014 and that anger ought to compel you to act on their behalf.<\/p>\nLet me be clear, I\u2019m not talking about anger as an emotion<\/em>. This isn\u2019t about how we feel<\/em>, but about whether or not we respond<\/em>.<\/p>\nAnd again, we\u2019re not talking about responding to \u201copinions contrary to our own,\u201d but about responding to actions that do real harm. Or responding to words that empower and enable and provoke actions that do real harm. Such words and actions should make us angry. And that anger should cause us to act in response to those harmful actions, or to speak up against those hurtful words.<\/p>\n
That doesn\u2019t mean we must act or speak angrily<\/em>, or that we must act or speak in anger<\/em>. \u201cIn your anger, sin not.\u201d But if we fail to act or to speak, then we are failing to love. That failure may be due to apathy, or to fear, or to a host of other reasons, but sometimes it is due to our corresponding failure to get angry.<\/p>\nYou got kids? If not, how about a kid sister or a kid brother? No? Then how about a dog, you got a dog? Or a cat? A spouse? Everybody loves someone or something. I\u2019m going to go with kids here, but if you don\u2019t have kids, just think of your little sister or your cat or whoever it is you love.<\/p>\n
Say you see somebody hurting your kids \u2014 deliberately, cruelly inflicting harm on them. That will make you angry. Such anger is right and proper and just. You will be angry because you love your kids, and that anger and that love will compel you to act<\/em> on their behalf \u2014 to stop this cruel somebody from harming them.<\/p>\nNow, if you saw this happening and you did not get angry or try to put a stop to this cruelty, what do you suppose the rest of us would think? We wouldn\u2019t be congratulating you on your saintly calm demeanor. Nor would we be admiring you as an exemplar of Christian civility.<\/p>\n
No, we would be angry with you<\/em> over your lack of anger. Then, after we acted in your stead to stop the harm being done to your kids, that anger would compel us to confront you with your evident lack of love for your own children.<\/p>\nNone of this changes when the victims of this cruel, deliberate harm are someone other than your blood relations.<\/p>\n
I bring all this up, of course, because yesterday\u2019s posts here were a bit on the angry side. If my comments on Bryan Fischer or Douglas Wilson came across as angry, that\u2019s because I am angry. Furious<\/em>, actually. Livid.<\/p>\nThese men are saying hateful, harmful things. Yes, in a sense, they are expressing \u201copinions contrary to my own,\u201d but that is not all they are doing, and those differences of opinion are not the problem here.<\/p>\n
The problem is not that Bryan Fischer and I have a difference of opinion over whether or not gay men deserve to die. The problem is that Bryan Fischer says that gay men deserve to die, that his saying this is hurtful and harmful, that his full time job consists of convincing others to believe and to say such hurtful and harmful things, and, most importantly, that he\u2019s a blaspheming lobbyist for an influential political faction shaping policy such that it will tangibly, actually and physically harm, injure, oppress, deprive, disenfranchise, discriminate against and terrorize LGBT people.<\/p>\n
Bryan Fischer is doing harm. He\u2019s hurting people. He has victims \u2014 real, actual victims.<\/p>\n
That ought to make us angry. And that anger ought to compel us to act and to speak up on behalf of those he is harming. If it doesn\u2019t \u2014 if we do not get angry and therefore act \u2014 we dare not make any claim to love those victims. If Bryan Fischer\u2019s words and political actions do not make us angry, then the best we can say for ourselves is that we hate his victims marginally<\/em> less than he does.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"\u201cHope has two beautiful daughters. Their names are Anger and Courage; anger at the way things are, and courage to see that they do not remain the way they are.\u201d \u2014 attributed to St. Augustine Josh Barkey recently highlighted an intriguing quote from Bertrand Russell, warning readers to be suspicious of anger: If an opinion […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":141,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[28],"class_list":["post-9247","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-evangelicals","tag-religious-right"],"yoast_head":"\n
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