comes at the expense of others<\/a>. \u00a0Good gifts come not from getting the best deal on the latest wizbang digital must-have of the year, but through paying attention. \u00a0We must pay attention to the subtle delights of the person to whom we are giving the gift and then try to meet that delight. \u00a0This comes from a well chosen book or a gift made with care and time and attention put into it.<\/p>\nSome Christians have taken to committing to spend no more than a $100 this season. \u00a0I think that is a good idea, not because it will save money, but because it will force attention\u2013limits help us do that. \u00a0Rest helps us pay attention too\u2013it opens up the space for us to see. \u00a0So today, rather than join the mad dash of Black Friday (a color with so many meanings) we should rest and watch. \u00a0Advent is coming, signs are appearing, there is much to pay attention to.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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