{"id":1374,"date":"2016-06-14T23:53:30","date_gmt":"2016-06-15T03:53:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/spiritualitychannelseries\/?p=1374"},"modified":"2016-06-15T03:43:11","modified_gmt":"2016-06-15T07:43:11","slug":"dear-orlando-may-our-hearts-be-forever-changed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/spiritualitychannelseries\/2016\/06\/dear-orlando-may-our-hearts-be-forever-changed\/","title":{"rendered":"Dear Orlando: May Our Hearts Be Forever Changed"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><figure id=\"attachment_1376\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1376\" style=\"width: 533px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/265\/2016\/06\/Vigil_for_Orlando_victims_Wellington_June_13_2016_27030301454.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1376\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1376 \" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/265\/2016\/06\/Vigil_for_Orlando_victims_Wellington_June_13_2016_27030301454-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"Vigil_for_Orlando_victims,_Wellington,_June_13,_2016_(27030301454)\" width=\"533\" height=\"355\"><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1376\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Wikimedia Commons<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/p><p>Precious lives have been stolen by a thief on a dark mission. Today, as some of Orlando\u2019s survivors grasp faintly at life\u2019s misty breath, others ride trauma\u2019s rough waves with fear\u2019s toxic residue pulsing through their veins. Cell phones bearing their owners\u2019 final text messages have finally stopped their frantic ringing. Stunned parents select\u00a0coffins for their children\u2019s ravaged bodies.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1387\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1387\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/265\/2016\/06\/Juan-and-Drew.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1387\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1387 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/265\/2016\/06\/Juan-and-Drew-300x211.jpg\" alt=\"Juan and Drew\" width=\"300\" height=\"211\"><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1387\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Juan and Drew\/Facebook<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Pulse was a safe haven. A sacred place. People went there last Saturday night to have fun. To be themselves. Latin lovers danced their hearts out to the salsa beat\u00a0as last call sounded, soon to be punctuated by the sharp crack of gunfire. But when that vandal punctured the heart of the LGBTQ community, along with the blood and the tears, love flowed into the world. The living and the dead\u2014the lovers and the beloved\u2014became love itself. Carrying the wounded through the carnage, arms slung over shoulders like kids in summer camp relay races, love incarnate took on flesh in an intimate embrace that knows no gender.<\/p>\n<p>Yet the pain of loss and the bitter hatred that caused it still threatens to pull us under. The bullets cannot be gathered up and put back into that gun. The countless hate-filled thoughts and words that led to this violent spree cannot be neutralized. Extremism and fundamentalism fan the flames but cannot explain the fire. That\u2019s up to every soul on the human journey. We won\u2019t find answers on our big screen televisions or on any one of our mobile devices. We all must look deep into our own heart of hearts. That\u2019s easier to do now that they\u2019re broken open. We cling to one another and to the hope that as we heal, by God\u2019s grace, so shall the world.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1375\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1375\" style=\"width: 211px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/265\/2016\/06\/bloody-shoes.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1375\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-1375\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/265\/2016\/06\/bloody-shoes.jpg\" alt=\"Joshua Corsa\/Facebook\" width=\"211\" height=\"158\"><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1375\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Joshua Corsa\/Facebook<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Gentle kisses on swollen eyelids bring a moment\u2019s comfort. A doctor\u2019s bloodstained shoes and the jagged passageways blasted through concrete walls remind us that the helpers were there. Miracles happened. People who have had to fight tirelessly for the right to love openly, it turns out, are really good at it! And hearts hardened\u00a0by stubborn allegiance to ancient codes of conduct soften when soaked in the salty waters of tears. In this raw and tender time, families across the globe once torn apart by the punishing legacy of bigotry might just come together with newfound acceptance.<\/p>\n<p>We can hope. And we can carry each other across the threshold to a new life together. As we bear\u00a0the shared burden of grief, may we all be forever changed.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1378\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1378\" style=\"width: 462px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/265\/2016\/06\/Washington_DC_Vigil_for_Orlando_27046826374.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1378\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-1378\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/265\/2016\/06\/Washington_DC_Vigil_for_Orlando_27046826374-300x170.jpg\" alt=\"Washington_DC_Vigil_for_Orlando_(27046826374)\" width=\"462\" height=\"262\"><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1378\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Wikimedia Commons<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When that vandal punctured the heart of the LGBTQ community, along with the blood and the tears, love flowed into the world. 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