{"id":2397,"date":"2008-10-23T22:04:00","date_gmt":"2008-10-23T22:04:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/standingonmyhead\/2008\/10\/weep-for-a-biretta-2\/"},"modified":"2008-10-23T22:04:00","modified_gmt":"2008-10-23T22:04:00","slug":"weep-for-a-biretta-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/standingonmyhead\/2008\/10\/weep-for-a-biretta-2.html","title":{"rendered":"Weep for a Biretta"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><a href=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_5BV_YADVD7o\/SQEtf1b6ykI\/AAAAAAAAB44\/iWYfJMzWjQA\/s1600-h\/fd+with+servers.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:left;margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer;cursor:hand;width: 400px;height: 265px\" src=\"https:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_5BV_YADVD7o\/SQEtf1b6ykI\/AAAAAAAAB44\/iWYfJMzWjQA\/s400\/fd+with+servers.jpg\" border=\"0\" alt=\"\"><\/a>A big burly man in his late sixties came up to me at the Knights of Columbus breakfast last month after Mass at St Mary\u2019s.<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>He took me to one side and said conspiratorially, \u201cFather, listen to me.\u201d he said with a strong Bronx accent.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u201cYes?\u201d I said, fearing that he was about to divulge some inner insanity to which I would have to listen carefully.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u201cYou wore that hat today at Mass\u2026\u201d<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u201cThe biretta?\u201d<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u201cYeh, the biretta.\u201d then I noticed his eyes were getting misty. \u201cAlways wear it Father. Please. I haven\u2019t seen one for years, and it brought back my childhood. I\u2019m visiting here from New York. This church is beautiful the Mass is beautiful. Thank you for wearing the biretta.\u201d Then he gives me this huge bear hug and I hear him sobbing a tiny bit.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>True story. \u00a0Who says hats don\u2019t matter?<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>They\u2019re going to get my biretta from me when they pry my cold dead fingers from around it.<\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A big burly man in his late sixties came up to me at the Knights of Columbus breakfast last month after Mass at St Mary\u2019s. 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