{"id":289,"date":"2017-01-10T13:40:42","date_gmt":"2017-01-10T21:40:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/tempest\/?p=289"},"modified":"2017-01-10T13:40:42","modified_gmt":"2017-01-10T21:40:42","slug":"threads-bind-us-free-us","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/tempest\/2017\/01\/threads-bind-us-free-us.html","title":{"rendered":"The Threads That Bind Us &#038; Those That Free Us"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><em>I\u2019m eye-ball deep in finalizing the first draft of my second book (Sigil Witchery), due in to the publisher shortly, but I wanted to make sure y\u2019all still got some material. The following is from my<strong> archived<\/strong> blog, published in late <strong>February of 2016<\/strong> there, but wasn\u2019t transferred over here to Patheos \u2013 so it\u2019s probably new to you!<\/em><br>\nEven though I have been easing myself back into the realm of the Pagan community for a couple of years now, I still have a bit of Rip Van Winkle particles clinging to me. \u00a0Several long road trips and extended time in the studio have allowed for dedicated listening to a variety of podcasts, varying from specific practices to general commentary on the community.<\/p>\n<p>And I must say, I find it rather fascinating to see what\u2019s being argued about these days.<\/p>\n<p>Twenty years ago, one of the biggest pressing issues was interfaith working and religious rights \u2013 getting the variety of paths under the Pagan umbrella recognized for being valid, fighting discrimination, and working to educate others. \u00a0This was the time of the founding\/organization of Pagan Pride (in a more formalized way, or attempt at), the Pagan Leaders Summit, working to get Pagan recognition within the armed services, schools, press, prisons, etc. \u00a0I was in the thick of it, hosting the first Rhode Island PPD, being an associate editor of<i> Crescent Magazine<\/i>, founding a college Pagan Society (that grew beyond that quickly), creating public events, lecturing at colleges about Paganism, among other things (makes me tired just thinking about it!). For the most part, looking back, there has been much success in accomplishing many of these goals thanks to many minds, hearts, and hands. That\u2019s rather amazing!<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_290\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-290\" style=\"width: 600px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-290\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/sites\/654\/2017\/01\/shalott-detail.jpg\" alt=\"Detail from Hunt's &quot;Lady of Shalott&quot; Painting\" width=\"600\" height=\"300\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-290\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><em>Detail from Hunt\u2019s \u201cLady of Shalott\u201d Painting<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Within the community, the arguing (ahem, issues) back then seemed fairly split between tradition authenticity\/validity and Wicca vs. Witchcraft\/witchcraft. \u00a0I have to say, in my 20\u2019s, I got rather tired of explaining that no, I wasn\u2019t Wiccan, though we had plenty of folks in the open path group that were.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m glad to see that for the most part, nowadays there\u2019s recognition and respect in the validity of one\u2019s path, regardless of its supposed age. The discontent seems to have shifted more to \u201care you doing it right?\u201d \u2013 and \u201cit\u201d being akin to describing an invisible elephant floating in the middle of a black hole.<\/p>\n<p>Stepping back, it looks to be largely all about semantics: What and how are you labeling yourself? What does that label mean to you, me \u2013 in Indiana or in Italy or in India? Are there gods? What are they? Are you worshiping them correctly per your method of understanding them? Is it spirituality, religion, or practice? Is it a vocation or state of being? What is your purpose? What is your responsibility? What do these words mean and who used them first, last, or is there something better?<\/p>\n<p>I think it speaks <strong>highly<\/strong> of the efforts of twenty years ago, that instead of our primary worry being about our rights to practice whatever we do \u2013 without immediate danger of losing jobs, homes, family, lives (though not true for everywhere, even in parts of the US), we\u2019re neck-deep in exploring the academic and esoteric \u2013 examining the threads that make up the tapestry versus worrying if there\u2019s a place we can safely hang the tapestry in the first place. \u00a0That\u2019s also pretty amazing.<\/p>\n<p>The tricky thing is to be able to not get bogged down in creating more marginal within the marginal. \u00a0Whether you see your path as a religion, a spirituality, a vocation, or some other sort of practice \u2013 it\u2019s precisely and primarily YOUR path. \u00a0Your relationship to the world \u2013 be it the plants, trees, animals, gods, electrons, or donuts \u2013 is specific and unique to you. There are surely similarly among paths and even within traditions, but your connection to it all is still unique and different on the level of the thread in the larger tapestry. \u00a0Regardless of what you call it.<\/p>\n<p>Labels help us identify and describe \u2013 and words have meaning and power \u00a0\u2013 but that meaning can change \u2013 from place to place, person to person, time to time. \u00a0So we need to reach beyond the words and find the similarities and seek to understand differences. \u00a0We can talk about what we do (if we choose to do that at all), without degrading or dismissing other paths. \u00a0We can compare and contrast without condemning. We can share our beliefs and describe our journeys while simultaneously not invalidating the experiences of others. \u00a0We can listen to why others choose the words they do, and learn more about ourselves in the process. \u00a0If we wish to talk about why something is wrong, we need to be willing to talk about how to do it right.<\/p>\n<p>Walking your own path doesn\u2019t mean trampling over others. \u00a0Sometimes we overlap, sometimes we run parallel, and sometimes we meet at the crossroads.<\/p>\n<p>Above and below all things, be armed with respect as you encounter others \u2013 and we\u2019ll be amazed when we look back in another 20 years.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I\u2019m eye-ball deep in finalizing the first draft of my second book (Sigil Witchery), due in to the publisher shortly, but I wanted to make sure y\u2019all still got some material. 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