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<\/a><\/p>\nMy archives are not all moved over yet, so I can\u2019t find most of the posts, but we do sometimes muse about suffering<\/strong><\/a> here.<\/p>\n Often the topic comes up because we are sharing sad news<\/strong><\/a> that reminds us once again that no one gets through life without experiencing what it is to suffer<\/strong><\/a>.<\/p>\n We have been trained in the secular world to disregard life as something holy and to understand that our human potential is inextricably tied to our personal freedoms and our domination over those uncontrollable matters of life: death, pain, and joy. This is a great deception. The truth is, just as human expansion upon the earth depended upon someone being willing to explore those uncharted waters marked, \u201cHere be monsters,\u201d our human potential can only grow when it is open to exploring the Unknowable. The vehicle for that exploration is faith. If the monsters of life are pain and suffering, fear and doubt, moving through them is what leads to discovery, growth, and \u2014 yes \u2014 holiness. God does not give us more than we can endure, but we cannot ascertain on our own precisely how much strength we have.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Suffering, in fact is the great leveler<\/strong> \u2013 the thing that brings us to a common ground of pleading and unavoidable transition. It might even be the thing that binds us, if we can be bothered looking around at other people\u2019s lives rather than obsessing on our own.<\/p>\n Suffering does not bypass the rich or skip over the poor; it is not confined only to agnostics, or doled out in extra measure to saints, and because this is true inevitability, suffering may be one of the \u201cmost fair\u201d parts of our lives. When we cannot see that, we allow suffering to make us bitter and resentful as we think, \u201cit\u2019s not<\/em> fair. That person gets to walk, but my son is in a wheelchair. That person lived to be 90 while my brother died so young. That couple had 50 years together, and we so pitifully few. That woman got to keep her children and see them grow into middle age\u2026\u201d A \u201clife fully lived\u201d is not about having many things, or knowing many people. It is about how we deal with what is before us, and who is around us. If suffering will come to us all, then we either admit it into the fullness of our lives, and find joy, or we push it away, and remain incomplete.<\/p>\n Chelsea Zimmerman was told<\/strong>, when she was 17 that she would never walk again. Over at Patheos she has this to say about suffering<\/strong><\/a>:<\/p>\n Why does hatred of suffering lead to decreased respect for human life? Because refusing to suffer is refusing the totality of living. It is a rejection of life itself. [\u2026] I\u2019m not going to lie. The past eleven years have not been easy. But that doesn\u2019t mean they have been \u201ctoo hard\u201d to take, or that joy has eluded me. I\u2019m still a human being, I\u2019m still alive, and my life still has meaning and infinite value despite my challenges and limitations. What\u2019s more, experiencing adversity has provided me with an elite (and extensive) education in the practical living-out of those valuable virtues: humility, patience, courage, and perseverance. . . We think that by pushing all that is imperfect and difficult out of our sights, we are showing the tenderness of our hearts, when all we are really betraying in our fear, and how it owns us.<\/p>\n But we needn\u2019t be owned.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Meanwhile, Rick at Brutally Honest<\/strong> has a video of a young seminarian \u2014 a former naval officer who had deployed twice to the Persian Gulf \u2014 who is dying of brain cancer<\/strong><\/a>. Rick writes:<\/p>\n We live in an entertainment age where we are easily bored or distracted unless nearly all of our senses are engaged. It\u2019s a sad fact.<\/p>\n [This talk by the seminarian]. I can\u2019t call it riveting [by today\u2019s standards]. What I can call it is enlightening. I can call it wisdom. I can call it a dose of reality that we need to hear. I can call it that which we should all listen to because the fact is that if you live long enough (and for this young man, not so long enough), you\u2019re going to suffer.<\/p>\n Set aside 30 quiet minutes and listen to what he has to say. It may just prepare you for something you\u2019ll appreciate later in life. It may give meaning to that which you\u2019re experiencing now.<\/p>\n No, it\u2019s not riveting. It\u2019s just necessary.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Go watch the video<\/strong><\/a>; suffering gives us courage and resilience, and hope.<\/p>\n We mustn\u2019t be afraid to suffer. The truth is, even if we are not Christian, even if we have no faith at all, in contemplating the crucifix, we contemplate great suffering, and One who knows precisely what it\u2019s all about.<\/p>\n Pain, Penance & Prayer<\/strong><\/a> My archives are not all moved over yet, so I can\u2019t find most of the posts, but we do sometimes muse about suffering here. Often the topic comes up because we are sharing sad news that reminds us once again that no one gets through life without experiencing what it is to suffer. We have […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":112,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[4831,4916,4903],"class_list":["post-25465","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-catholicism","tag-culture-of-life","tag-suffering"],"yoast_head":"\n
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\nJohn F. Kennedy once said,<\/strong> \u201cwhoever said life was \u2018fair?'\u201d<\/em> but in one sense it really is. We all get a turn in the crucible<\/strong><\/a>. And what we do with our time there \u2014 how open we are to being shaped and molded in that white hot heat \u2014 has a lot to do with whether our lives can continue to sustain beauty, or love, or hope or joy.<\/p>\n
\nRead it all;<\/strong> suffering brings wisdom<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n
\nThe Searing Season<\/strong><\/a>
\nWhat we give away, what we keep<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"