{"id":587,"date":"2010-12-29T20:46:00","date_gmt":"2010-12-29T20:46:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/theatheistrabbi\/2010\/12\/a-non-theistic-jewish-funeral.html"},"modified":"2010-12-29T20:46:00","modified_gmt":"2010-12-29T20:46:00","slug":"a-non-theistic-jewish-funeral","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/theatheistrabbi\/2010\/12\/a-non-theistic-jewish-funeral.html","title":{"rendered":"A Non-Theistic Jewish Funeral"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>So I just conducted a funeral.\u00a0 God wasn\u2019t invited and nobody even noticed.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve only been performing non-theistic services and life cycle celebrations for a little over a year now.\u00a0 Funerals are the trickiest because while I only really do them for family or close friends, anyone can attend.\u00a0\u00a0In this case the deceased was also an atheist, but I can\u2019t say how many of the mourners were believers. \u00a0I assume there were at least some who have a vague theism. \u00a0Even though I said a non-theistic version of the Kaddish \u2013 praising peace rather than God \u2013 only one person commented on it afterward and not negatively.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>What does this say about God\u2019s importance at these events?\u00a0 If nobody\u2019s even asking about him at a funeral then how central can he be to these people\u2019s lives?\u00a0 Sometimes I think the Jewish community is so ready for something new and different that doesn\u2019t make them check their brains at the door.<\/p>\n<p>It went well.\u00a0 The family was very comforted by the presence of family and friends.\u00a0 They didn\u2019t really seem to need a guest appearance by Yahweh.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So I just conducted a funeral.\u00a0 God wasn\u2019t invited and nobody even noticed. 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