{"id":26290,"date":"2014-09-25T13:43:56","date_gmt":"2014-09-25T20:43:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/thedudeabides\/?p=26290"},"modified":"2015-03-10T10:02:42","modified_gmt":"2015-03-10T17:02:42","slug":"happy-birthday-we-are-good","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/thedudeabides\/2014\/09\/25\/happy-birthday-we-are-good\/","title":{"rendered":"Happy Birthday: We Are Good."},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><figure id=\"attachment_35241\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-35241\" style=\"width: 391px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-35241\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Me, age 3, in front of the Roman Catholic church in Milford, N.H.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/p><p>Today\u2019s my birthday and I asked friends to send me YouTube links to their favorite songs so I could make a playlist. We\u2019re up to about 75 now (and I will share it later) but my sweet friend Jennifer just sent a link that reminded me of a favorite I\u2019d rather forgotten about over the years.<\/p>\n<p>Alanis\u2019 words are my prayer for all of us today on the anniversary of my birth, and at the start of a new year (for my Jewish friends and family.)<\/p>\n<p>We\u2019re good, folks. All of us. Even if we gain 75 pounds. Even when we are overwhelmed. Even if we get and stay sick. When we\u2019re not ourselves. When we\u2019re fuming. When we are clingy. When we are no longer queen.<\/p>\n<p>We are good. We are loved. And we don\u2019t have to do anything. That\u2019s the thing about GRACE \u2026<\/p>\n<p>Thank you for all the birthday love. It really means so much to me, more than I could say. These last few years have been tryi<span class=\"text_exposed_show\">ng and this birthday is much the same. But you are good. I am good. We are loved. And there is GRACE. Thanks be to God. <\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"text_exposed_show\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Alanis Morissette - That I Would Be Good (Live)\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/QMZReI2QrlQ?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<blockquote><p>that I would be good even if I did nothing<\/p>\n<p>that I would be good even if I got the thumbs down<\/p>\n<p>that I would be good if I got and stayed sick<\/p>\n<p>that I would be good even if I gained ten pounds<\/p>\n<p>that I would be fine even if I went bankrupt<\/p>\n<p>that I would be good if I lost my hair and my youth<\/p>\n<p>that I would be great if I was no longer queen<\/p>\n<p>that I would be grand if I was not all knowing<\/p>\n<p>that I would be loved even when I numb myself<\/p>\n<p>that I would be good even when I am overwhelmed<\/p>\n<p>that I would be loved even when I was fuming<\/p>\n<p>that I would be good even if I was clingy<\/p>\n<p>that I would be good even if I lost sanity<\/p>\n<p>that I would be good<\/p>\n<p>whether with or without you<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>UPDATE: You can find the GodGrrl 2014 Birthday Play List, compiled by my friends, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/playlist?list=PLuhR8z09JzSMNadcqvShAt68PvNFH9ley\" target=\"_blank\" class=\" decorated-link\" rel=\"nofollow\">HERE<\/a>. <\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today\u2019s my birthday and I asked friends to send me YouTube links to their favorite songs so I could make a playlist. 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