{"id":641,"date":"2014-03-13T08:05:26","date_gmt":"2014-03-13T14:05:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/theprinciplesofspiritualliving\/?p=641"},"modified":"2014-03-13T08:05:26","modified_gmt":"2014-03-13T14:05:26","slug":"we-cant-whine-our-way-to-happiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/theprinciplesofspiritualliving\/2014\/03\/we-cant-whine-our-way-to-happiness\/","title":{"rendered":"We Can&#8217;t Whine Our Way to Happiness"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>We\u2019ve heard it before. Most if not all of us have done it before. What is \u201cit\u201d? It\u2019s whining for what we want. Fill in the blank anyway you choose: I wanna new job. I wanna new boyfriend. I wanna a new\/young\/slimmer body. Whine, whine, whine! (Be sure to look pathetic while you\u2019re whining \u2013 it\u2019s almost required for the full, desperate effect.)<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s nothing wrong with wanting more out of our lives and embracing change to have it happen. All of those desires above, or ones you might have come up with yourself, are worthwhile goals. The reason whining doesn\u2019t work to affect change in a lasting way is that whining comes from the despair of a victim. To truly have the lives we desire we must come from place of empowerment and confidence.<\/p>\n<p>This requires faith on our part. It also demands that our prayer work is one of acceptance and not petitioning. Madisyn Taylor put it well in her recent article, \u201cAs You Believe.\u201d In it she states, \u201cWhen we ask the universe for something, the unspoken message is that what we want does not exist, and the universe accepts this as truth.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Understanding that what we are seeking is already ours in Truth is first step to manifesting the change we pursue. Simple, but not always easy. It\u2019s not easy to feel abundant and prosperous if our checking account is overdrawn, our wallet empty and bills are multiplying on our desk. This is where faith and responsibility become our friends.<\/p>\n<p>We must have the faith that our current situation is not the way must live in perpetuity. If our faith is lacking then it\u2019s time to call a trusted spiritual partner or guide to \u201cborrow\u201d some of their faith. By allowing another person to know the Truth about us, to have faith in our potential, we usually find that our burden is lighter.<\/p>\n<p>Taking full responsibility allows us to move out of blame and acting like victim. I firmly accept that I have been completely responsible for every event in my life. In many cases, if not most, the situation was caused by negative or self-deprecating subconscious thoughts I failed to rein in. I must admit that at the time I didn\u2019t necessarily recognize my personal responsibility, but in retrospect I know it to be so.<\/p>\n<p>Empowering ourselves and taking responsibility for the lives we see before us and the body we see in the mirror is a key to freedom. It releases us from the shackles of negative thinking and undesirable results. Join me this week to affirm your faith and achieving your desires through personal responsibility for the outcome.<\/p>\n<p>In Spirit, Truth and Playfulness,<\/p>\n<p>Terry<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We\u2019ve heard it before. Most if not all of us have done it before. What is \u201cit\u201d? It\u2019s whining for what we want. Fill in the blank anyway you choose: I wanna new job. I wanna new boyfriend. I wanna a new\/young\/slimmer body. Whine, whine, whine! 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