I\u2019m on vacation this week \u2013 away from home AND away from all my electronic gadgets! I hope this week you\u2019ll enjoy a revised version of a popular article I wrote in 2012. See you next week with something brand new and fresh!<\/p>\n
Terry<\/p>\n
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I am Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe<\/strong><\/p>\n Have you ever had one of those days when everyone looks at you like you have green antennae growing out of your head? It\u2019s sort of that \u201cfish out of water\u201d experience; you just don\u2019t feel like you belong.<\/p>\n I grew up, like a lot of my friends, not really feeling at all like I belonged where I was. My trailer park roots are not something of which I am ashamed, but mother always said that I must have been mixed up at Good Samaritan Hospital in Dayton, OH, with a missing baby from the Rockefeller family. My champagne tastes on a beer budget have gotten me in a financial pickle more than once.<\/p>\n But that\u2019s not exactly what I am talking about. Sometimes when we don\u2019t feel like we fit in it\u2019s because we really don\u2019t fit in. That\u2019s not to say we are better than those around us, but we may very well be different. It\u2019s as if we are trying to park diagonally when everyone else is parking parallel. We tend to stand out.<\/p>\n While our school systems would like us to believe that we are educating free-thinkers, the teachers who allow students to think outside the box are few and far between. Today many educators are more concerned with test scores and measurements than they are with teaching our young people how to reason or think creatively. When a child does not conform to the norms of the school or society she or he can be set apart as undesirable.<\/p>\n We must each decide how much we wish to fit in without jeopardizing our individuality. At the same time we can be more loving in how much latitude we give to those around us in how they choose to express their individuality. Just because we are different than those around us, or around those who are unlike us, it doesn\u2019t mean we or they are wrong. Neither should it require anything more than a change of outlook. It means each of us is uniquely qualified to express life in a way that no one else can. That is something to be celebrated, not repressed.<\/p>\n Perhaps this week you can cut yourself some slack if you find your decisions are going against the grain of those around you. We needn\u2019t make others wrong to justify our actions. But, we can believe in ourselves, knowing that we are acting in a matter which is best for us.<\/p>\n In Spirit, Truth and Playfulness,<\/p>\n Terry<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" I\u2019m on vacation this week \u2013 away from home AND away from all my electronic gadgets! I hope this week you\u2019ll enjoy a revised version of a popular article I wrote in 2012. See you next week with something brand new and fresh! Terry \u00a0 I am Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe Have you […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1674,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[293,5,139,294,122,234,203,243],"class_list":["post-809","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-conformity","tag-ernest-holmes","tag-guilt","tag-self-assured","tag-self-confidence","tag-shame","tag-terry-drew-karanen","tag-unique"],"yoast_head":"\n