{"id":669,"date":"2016-11-22T12:02:54","date_gmt":"2016-11-22T20:02:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/thewitchesnextdoor\/?p=669"},"modified":"2017-08-10T19:17:39","modified_gmt":"2017-08-11T03:17:39","slug":"a-witch-gives-thanks","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/thewitchesnextdoor\/2016\/11\/a-witch-gives-thanks\/","title":{"rendered":"A Witch Gives Thanks On Thanksgiving"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<\/head>
Thanksgiving, as celebrated in the United States has a complicated history. We are inundated with bucolic images of blue-eyed, cherubic pilgrims in the buckled shoes, sharing a bountiful table with the ever so grateful and equally generous natives who are just so gosh darned pleased that the pilgrims could stop by for dinner. Then, of course, after dessert, there\u2019s the genocide to give thanks for.<\/div>\n

The \u201creal\u201d story of Thanksgiving<\/a> is particularly bloody, and not just for the turkey. Members of the Pequot Nation lost over seven hundred men, women and children. The ensuing decades brought near total devastation for the First Nations peoples living all around what is now New England. Who gives thanks for that?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s difficult to get behind a holiday with such a dreadful history. The holiday is further complicated for me as a Witch and Pagan, because of the religious overtones the day\u00a0has enfolded all through it. How do I participate and hold the awareness of the suffering and somehow mindfully enter into, what otherwise (can there really be an otherwise, I wonder?) is a lovely idea for a gathering? I mean, getting together with loved ones, sharing a meal and giving thanks for what we have sounds like a lot of Pagan rituals I\u2019ve been too.<\/p>\n

So with an eye to the past and an honoring of the terrible losses, the best I can come up with is a gratitude ritual. Here\u2019s how it goes:<\/p>\n

(Of course, this ritual can be modified a zillion ways to fit your needs and circumstances.)<\/p>\n

While I\u2019m chopping food and sauteing vegetables and prepping a mountain of delectables, I\u2019m grounding and giving thanks. I find making food to be a wonderful way to bring myself to center and a place of being grounded. Connecting to the very planet we walk on everyday is pretty easy with a big bunch of carrots in my hand.<\/p>\n

Candles are lit in every room ( I do use a couple of the LED ones in certain rooms, ya know, just for safety). This feels like a circle casting to me. Bringing light into areas where there are shadows and setting an intention that this house is safe and protected. I give thanks for the light.<\/p>\n

Working with Elemental forces in a kitchen is so very present and obvious. Air is represented by songs and conversations and the words typed into cookbooks and my notes scribbled in the margins. I\u2019m cleaning kitchen tools and vegetables with Water. There\u2019s Fire present in the oven and stove top and in the heat of the Whiskey I\u2019ll be drinking. Earth is all around disguised as wooden chopping boards and food and the very bodies of the people invited to sit at the table. I give thanks to the Elements.<\/p>\n

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There are always pictures of my ancestors about the house, but this time of year we\u2019ll encourage our guests to tell stories of their ancestors. Tales about those wonderful, terrible Turkey Day recipes that are \u00a0salads in name but have more mayonnaise and butter than any salad I\u2019ve ever seen. We\u2019ll laugh about the time uncle so and so did this or the time the dogs ate the stuffing off of the counter. For a moment, we\u2019ll forget that our dearly departed ones aren\u2019t just sitting in the next room. I give thanks to the ancestors.<\/p>\n

And at some point during our meal, I\u2019ll say what and who I am grateful for in this moment, right now, even in the midst of hard and uncertain times. Each guest shares (if so called) something that they are grateful for. Taking note of a full table and the faces that are present and not present. We remind ourselves of what we are thankful for. And we\u2019ll remember those that have paved the way, sometimes by their suffering, for us to be here.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no rush or time limit to this part of the ritual. Devoking the circle and thanking the elements and Ancestors happens whenever I get around to doing the dishes and putting the last of the desserts back into the fridge.<\/p>\n

May we never hunger. May we never thirst. Let us always remember those that went before and honor them. May we recall that we live on stolen land and give back to it and the People in every way we can. Let us always offer thanks.<\/p>\n

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