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https://wp-media.patheos.com/blogs/sites/560/2016/08/Syracuse_1913_flirt.jpg648433But that makes it extra disappointing when men new to this culture, inebriated by this freedom and entranced by the empowered and confident women who attend these events, pull the stuff they've learned in mundane mainstream culture. It harshes everyone's buzz.