{"id":177,"date":"2013-12-04T07:52:53","date_gmt":"2013-12-04T14:52:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/searchingfortomsawyer\/?p=177"},"modified":"2013-12-04T07:52:53","modified_gmt":"2013-12-04T14:52:53","slug":"why-you-should-care-about-the-boy-crisis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/timwright\/2013\/12\/why-you-should-care-about-the-boy-crisis\/","title":{"rendered":"Why You Should Care About the &#8220;Boy Crisis&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>My concern for the future of boys is personal.\u00a0 I have two grandsons, both nearing age three.\u00a0 I\u2019m the pastor of a church with boys of all ages.\u00a0 These are real boys, boys I care about, who are growing up in a world:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Where boys are increasingly falling behind girls in school<\/li>\n<li>Where the reading skills of teenage boys have been in decline for 20 years<\/li>\n<li>Where fewer males are attending and graduating from college<\/li>\n<li>Where increasing numbers of boys are being raised without positive male energy being poured into them and therefore have no noble vision for what it means to be a man<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/searchingfortomsawyer\/files\/2013\/12\/9boycrisis2.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-178\" title=\"9boycrisis2\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/searchingfortomsawyer\/files\/2013\/12\/9boycrisis2-300x186.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"186\"><\/a>This issue is personal for me.\u00a0 But I\u2019d like to suggest that it should be personal for you as well, whether you have a boy in your life or not.<\/p>\n<p>Imagine the implications, not only for our boys, but for our culture, if the above trends continue (and at this point, there seems to be no reason why they won\u2019t):<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Policymakers in the US calculate that if 5% more boys completed high school and matriculated to college, the nation would save $8 billion a year in welfare and criminal justice costs.<\/em> (Michael Reichert and Richard Hawley, <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Reaching-Boys-Teaching-Strategies-that\/dp\/0470532785\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1386168343&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=Reaching+Boys+Teaching+Boys\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Reaching Boys, Teaching Boys: Strategies that Work and Why,<\/a> p. ix).\u00a0 <\/em>What will it cost us if the trend continues and more and more boys don\u2019t finish high school and matriculate to college?<\/li>\n<li>The majority of new jobs will increasingly require strong reading and verbal skills.\u00a0 Our boys are falling behind in that area.\u00a0 80% of the fastest growing careers will require a post-secondary education.\u00a0 Fewer boys are pursuing that education.\u00a0 Where will they get employment?\u00a0 Will they be able to earn a liveable wage?\u00a0 What might the impact be on our social systems if boys\/men don\u2019t keep up educationally or skills-wise with our economy?<\/li>\n<li>What will be the impact on male\/female relationships?\u00a0 As women fly past men in terms of education, employment skills, and income (young adult women now make more money that young adult men\u2013<em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/The-Rise-Women-Education-American\/dp\/0871540517\/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1386168553&amp;sr=8-2&amp;keywords=The+Rise+of+Women\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">The Rise of Women: The Growing Gender Gap in Education and What it Means for American Schools,<\/a>\u00a0<\/em>Thomas A. Diprete and Claudia Buchmann, p. 3), where will women looking for a life partner find a man who can be her equal intellectually, emotionally, and so on?\u00a0 (I have a granddaughter, so this issue is also personal for me!)<\/li>\n<li>With few men mentoring our boys with a compelling vision for manhood, what will be the impact of these vision-less boys\/men on families? Fatherhood?\u00a0 Citizenship?\u00a0\u00a0 All too often, boys with no heroic vision for manhood either become violent or passive.\u00a0 Culture and families suffer greatly from both violent males and passive males.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>This isn\u2019t just a parenting issue\u2026a school issue\u2026a church issue.\u00a0 It\u2019s a cultural issue.\u00a0 It impacts and will continue to impact all of us.<\/p>\n<p>Why should you care?\u00a0 For the reasons stated above and many more, but most important of all: Because these boys are created in the Image of God, male.\u00a0 They matter to God.\u00a0 God created them to matter to us.\u00a0 To matter to society.\u00a0\u00a0 Healthy, vibrant, noble, educated males build a better world.\u00a0 We need them.\u00a0 That\u2019s why you should care.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My concern for the future of boys is personal.\u00a0 I have two grandsons, both nearing age three.\u00a0 I\u2019m the pastor of a church with boys of all ages.\u00a0 These are real boys, boys I care about, who are growing up in a world: Where boys are increasingly falling behind girls in school Where the reading [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1621,"featured_media":1055,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[11],"tags":[41,2,27,57,50,9,23],"class_list":["post-177","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-boys","tag-boy-crisis","tag-boys","tag-educating-boys","tag-image-of-god","tag-mentors","tag-searching-for-tom-sawyer","tag-tim-wright"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v21.1 - 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