{"id":570,"date":"2015-04-16T05:40:41","date_gmt":"2015-04-16T12:40:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/admin.patheos.com\/blogs\/searchingfortomsawyer\/?p=570"},"modified":"2015-04-16T05:40:41","modified_gmt":"2015-04-16T12:40:41","slug":"why-church-matters-to-your-kids-part-1-does-the-church-matter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/timwright\/2015\/04\/why-church-matters-to-your-kids-part-1-does-the-church-matter\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Church Matters to Your Kids, Part 1: Does the Church Matter?"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p>Philip Yancey, in his book, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Whats-So-Amazing-About-Grace\/dp\/0310245656\/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1429110609&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=what%27s+so+amazing+about+grace\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>What\u2019s so Amazing About Grace, <\/em><\/a>opens up with a gut-wrenching story about a man who was approached by a prostitute in Chicago. She was homeless, broke, sick, and unable to feed her 2-year-old daughter. Through tears of shame she admitted that she had been renting out her daughter in order to support her own drug habit. After the man got over his initial shock, he asked her: \u201cWhy don\u2019t you go to a church for help?\u201d Her response: \u201cChurch? Why would I go there? I was already feeling terrible about myself. They\u2019d just make me feel worse.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The book, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Sacred-Roots-Church-Matters-Frames-ebook\/dp\/B00FJ46X9Y\/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1429110554&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=Sacred+Roots%3A+Why+the+Church+Still+Matters\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><em>Sacred Roots: Why the Church Still Matters, <\/em><\/a>recounts the story of a Millennial who had been raised in the church and is now an atheist. His reason: <em>Christianity is something that if you really believed it, it would change your life. I haven\u2019t seen too much of that.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Countless stories have been written of late on the decline of the church and its influence, especially among Millennials. While the majority of USAmericans claim that Jesus is the Son of God, only 30% believe the church is important\u2026that the church matters. Only 2 out of 10 Millennials believe the church matters and when asked to list those things that influence their faith, the Church didn\u2019t even make their top 10 list. (Source: <em>Sacred Roots)\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/searchingfortomsawyer\/files\/2015\/04\/Unknown.png\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-572\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.patheos.com\/blogs\/searchingfortomsawyer\/files\/2015\/04\/Unknown.png\" alt=\"Unknown\" width=\"216\" height=\"210\"><\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Where once upon a time a congregation\u2019s best attenders worshipped 3 or more weekends a month, now the best attenders show up once every 4-5 weeks.<\/p>\n<p>People have come to believe the church no longer matters for a variety of reasons:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Some have been burned by the church<\/li>\n<li>Some have found the church to be lifeless, faithless, and graceless<\/li>\n<li>Some believe they can commune with God better in nature than in a building<\/li>\n<li>Some believe that if they want a sermon, they can get it on TV<\/li>\n<li>For many, the internet provides all the information they need on their particular faith<\/li>\n<li>For others, the church is one big hypocritical institution only interested in money<\/li>\n<li>For many, including Christians, the church has become simply another consumer option. If I need it, I\u2019ll take advantage of it. If it doesn\u2019t fill my needs, I\u2019ll move on to something else. The Church may be good to have around if it\u2019s convenient or helpful, but it\u2019s not essential.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I\u2019ve been in the church all of my life. I\u2019ve been a pastor for over 30 years. That will tip you off that I have a different, though minority, view of the church.<\/p>\n<p>I believe the church does matter. I believe the world needs a vibrant, dynamic, church.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s not to say I\u2019m ignorant of the bad stuff caused in the name of the Church and Jesus over the years.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, I realize that bad press sells. The moral failures of pastors, the public judgementalism of a congregation, financial scandal, etc., make great news stories.<\/p>\n<p>Unreported, however, are the hundreds of thousands of good things millions of churches are doing around the world every single day.<\/p>\n<p>No national news organization has told any of the stories of our congregation, for example: No news story on the on-going work we are doing in one of the most at-risk neighborhoods in our area. No coverage of the 270,000 meals we packed in a 24 hours period for hungry kids. No journalists interviewing us about the medical clinic we are helping to build in Rwanda.<\/p>\n<p>And we\u2019re just one medium-sized church out of millions around the world doing stuff like that every day which no one talks about, hears about, or reports on. But these churches are quietly going about the business of helping their communities in the name of Jesus, and the communities and the world is better for it. Millions of Christians each day quietly live out their faith by helping their neighbors, choosing integrity at work, and serving in their communities.<\/p>\n<p>I believe the church does matter.<\/p>\n<p><em>And I believe it matters now more than ever for your kids.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Over the next several weeks I hope you\u2019ll join me as I tease out some of the compelling reasons why the church matters to you, your kids, and the world.<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Philip Yancey, in his book, What\u2019s so Amazing About Grace, opens up with a gut-wrenching story about a man who was approached by a prostitute in Chicago. She was homeless, broke, sick, and unable to feed her 2-year-old daughter. 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