{"id":211,"date":"2011-02-20T21:10:00","date_gmt":"2011-02-20T21:10:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/unequallyyoked\/2011\/02\/ethics-case-study-2-senior-gift\/"},"modified":"2012-09-20T19:32:03","modified_gmt":"2012-09-20T23:32:03","slug":"ethics-case-study-2-senior-gift","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/unequallyyoked\/2011\/02\/ethics-case-study-2-senior-gift.html","title":{"rendered":"Ethics Case Study #2: Senior Gift"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/-H8rol65hE-g\/TWHJUb6U9WI\/AAAAAAAABSQ\/KcCuezbFXeM\/s1600\/handsome+dan.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/-H8rol65hE-g\/TWHJUb6U9WI\/AAAAAAAABSQ\/KcCuezbFXeM\/s320\/handsome+dan.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"320\" height=\"269\" border=\"0\"><\/a><\/div>\n<p>The last post I wrote about <a href=\"http:\/\/www.unequally-yoked.com\/2011\/02\/case-study-in-my-ethicsmetaphysics.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">parts of my ethics that my friends label as \u2018Christian,\u2019<\/a> several commenters wrote in to take issue with the idea that Christians had a monopoly on that strand of moral thought. \u00a0I thought I\u2019d run another example by you all, since my resolution to a \u00a0recent dilemma had my <em>atheist<\/em> friends snickering and saying, \u201cYou are <em>such a Catholic!<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>So here\u2019s the situation: My university is in the middle of the drive for the Senior Class Gift and plenty of students disagree about whether anyone should contribute to our school\u2019s large endowment, rather than <a href=\"http:\/\/action.aclu.org\/site\/PageServer?pagename=FJ_donationhome&amp;s_subsrc=horiz_nav_hp\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">any<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.msf.org\/msf\/donations\/donations_home.cfm\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">one<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.heifer.org\/site\/c.edJRKQNiFiG\/b.195980\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">of<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/secure.globalproblems-globalsolutions.org\/site\/Donation2?1340.donation=form1&amp;df_id=1340\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">a<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.unicef.org\/support\/index.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">number<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lambdalegal.org\/take-action\/donate\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">of<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/secure.ppaction.org\/site\/SPageServer?pagename=pp_ppol_DonationFormOneTimeGift&amp;__utma=1.508334881.1298253223.1298253223.1298253223.1&amp;__utmb=1.3.10.1298253223&amp;__utmc=1&amp;__utmx=-&amp;__utmz=1.1298253223.1.1.utmcsr=(direct)%7Cutmccn=(direct)%7Cutmcmd=(none)&amp;__utmv=-&amp;__utmk=216962454\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">worthwhile<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/w2.eff.org\/donate\/index.php?s_src=http:\/\/www.eff.org\/front&amp;s_subsrc=donate\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">groups<\/a>. \u00a0At some schools (luckily not ours this year), the whole thing becomes an exercise in\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/2010\/10\/28\/at-dartmouth-and-cornell-_n_775359.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">poisonous\u00a0social coercion<\/a>, since there are bounties for full participation.<\/p>\n<p>Nevertheless, I donated five dollars.<\/p>\n<p>When the student assigned to badger me showed up in my room, I was frustrated and a little angry. \u00a0While I was arguing with her, I knew I was feeling spiteful and very proud of the principled stand I was taking. \u00a0I was in the kind of mood that builds into grudges, and I didn\u2019t want to stay that way, so I gave the minimum donation and then donated $20 to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.msf.org\/msf\/donations\/donations_home.cfm\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Doctors Without Borders<\/a>, to make up for the misspent money.<\/p>\n<p>I still think the drive is a bad idea, and prone to abuse, but, in the moment, I was the one behaving badly (even though I was behaving\u00a0politely\u00a0to the person I spoke to). \u00a0It was worth donating to nip my spite and pride in the bud. \u00a0But when I told my friends I donated to avoid \u201cholding anger in my heart,\u201d again with the \u201cSo when are you converting?\u201d cracks.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s obviously easy to summarize the situation in a Catholic framework: my pride in a small\u00a0righteousness\u00a0was leading me to sin against a classmate in my heart, but I think the principle works in an atheist framework of virtue ethics. \u00a0Do other atheists agree?<\/p>\n<div class=\"blogger-post-footer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/tracker\/4256452356987023523-2839260829798936396?l=www.unequally-yoked.com\" alt=\"\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\"><\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The last post I wrote about parts of my ethics that my friends label as \u2018Christian,\u2019 several commenters wrote in to take issue with the idea that Christians had a monopoly on that strand of moral thought. \u00a0I thought I\u2019d run another example by you all, since my resolution to a \u00a0recent dilemma had my 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