{"id":2209,"date":"2012-03-19T11:33:41","date_gmt":"2012-03-19T15:33:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/unequallyyoked\/?p=2209"},"modified":"2012-12-10T13:39:17","modified_gmt":"2012-12-10T18:39:17","slug":"now-you-see-me-now-i-what","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/unequallyyoked\/2012\/03\/now-you-see-me-now-i-what.html","title":{"rendered":"Now You See Me.  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\u00a0For LGBT people, being out can feel like a constant\u00a0responsibility\u00a0to witness. \u00a0Getting married to your gay partner? \u00a0Well, you\u2019d better never ever get divorced or do so much as fight in public, because when ever you go out as queer, you\u2019re carrying our entire civil rights struggle with you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s less clear what counts as a tactical error for an out atheist. \u00a0One of the big\u00a0stereotypes\u00a0we seem to be trying to dispel is that you can\u2019t be a moral person without a belief in a\u00a0supernatural\u00a0lawgiver (see the video below). \u00a0That\u2019s the driving force between <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/friendlyatheist\/2012\/02\/24\/an-atheist-in-catholic-school-wants-to-show-that-he-can-be-charitable-too\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">collaborating specifically as atheists to do charitable work<\/a>, instead of only doing it as individuals where our religious beliefs are less visible. \u00a0I guess you could channel that into a week of charitable action, but, personally, I prefer to give money for other groups to use than to offer my unskilled labor for a few hours. \u00a0(But I\u2019m counting this as another ping on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/unequallyyoked\/2012\/03\/overcome-our-sinful-calmness-rouse-us-with-redemptive-shame.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">my new charitable giving plan<\/a>).<\/p>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Scarlet Letter - Atheist Documentary Trailer\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/7844tcLvDNE?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<p>What\u2019s the next step, after you are visible enough to be a counterexample to the most implausible slanders? \u00a0Well, when I\u2019m <a href=\"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/unequallyyoked\/2011\/10\/coming-out-and-at-em.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\">making an effort to be out as a queer person<\/a>, I\u2019m essentially trying to get my interlocutor to expand their definition of \u2018non-disordered human\u2019 to include me. \u00a0That attitude shift will probably spark other changes (bullying policy, marriage law, etc), but my most basic goal is for them to expand a group to include me, too.<\/p>\n<p>When I\u2019m being\u00a0publicly\u00a0atheist, my long-term goal isn\u2019t to help atheists be tolerated (though I may take that on as a short-term goal). \u00a0My goal is for everyone to <em>be<\/em> atheists. \u00a0Except that doesn\u2019t really mean very much, so I <em>actually<\/em> want for everyone to be virtue\u00a0ethicists. \u00a0Or even more precisely, I want everyone to be good, aggressive, loving philosophers who will catch me out in errors, so we can all get closer to the truth together.<\/p>\n<p>But however you phrase it, my goals as an out atheist are a lot more intrusive and personal than my goals as an out bi girl. \u00a0So coming out as a non-believer is a prelude (however necessary) to the main event. \u00a0But I\u2019m not exactly sure what that is. \u00a0What do you think would be a good goal for an amped up A Week? \u00a0I\u2019d like to hear your suggested tactics in the comments.<\/p>\n<p>Because my current plan is to use A Week as a reminder to do some necessary housekeeping on the blog, in addition to the normal schedule of posting. \u00a0(Spring cleaning is so much more tolerable when it doesn\u2019t involve physical exertion).<\/p>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Remember you can vote once per day for the About.com Atheism Awards. \u00a0I\u2019m\u00a0one of five nominees for Best Atheist Blog. \u00a0More details here. 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