{"id":319,"date":"2010-10-14T17:34:00","date_gmt":"2010-10-14T17:34:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/unequallyyoked\/2010\/10\/what-brought-me-here-what-brought-you-here\/"},"modified":"2012-08-30T15:22:31","modified_gmt":"2012-08-30T19:22:31","slug":"what-brought-me-here-what-brought-you-here","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.patheos.com\/blogs\/unequallyyoked\/2010\/10\/what-brought-me-here-what-brought-you-here.html","title":{"rendered":"What brought me here, what brought you here"},"content":{"rendered":"<!DOCTYPE html PUBLIC \"-\/\/W3C\/\/DTD HTML 4.0 Transitional\/\/EN\" \"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/TR\/REC-html40\/loose.dtd\">\n<html><head><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><meta http-equiv=\"content-type\" content=\"text\/html; charset=utf-8\"><\/head><body><p><em>This is the 100th post since I started blogging here in the middle of June, so I\u2019m giving a quick reflection on how this has been going for me, and I\u2019d really appreciate any feedback from readers, lurkers or otherwise.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I started blogging about religion as a way to have arguments about religion with people who are not my boyfriend, since I didn\u2019t think it was fair to him or Catholicism to have him be my only source for knowledge about Catholic theology. \u00a0I thought it would be useful when I took RCIA classes during the inquiry period, but that <a href=\"http:\/\/www.unequally-yoked.com\/2010\/09\/rcia-update-and-more.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">didn\u2019t work out<\/a>. \u00a0I also hoped that the discipline of writing every day would\u2026 well, that certainly was not a success.<\/p>\n<p>I follow a number of atheist or Christian blogs, and I noticed that a lot of atheist blogs were focused primarily on political problems, while the Christian ones spent more time on morality. \u00a0I\u2019m really grateful for the work that blogs like <a href=\"http:\/\/friendlyatheist.com\/\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Friendly Atheist<\/a> do to keep me up to date on First Amendment violations, etc, but they weren\u2019t helping me answer my boyfriend\u2019s challenge to find other\u00a0atheists\u00a0who\u00a0believed\u00a0that morality was absolute and rooted in something outside cultural conditioning.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m still working on expressing my beliefs, and the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.unequally-yoked.com\/2010\/10\/sin-and-immorality-index-post.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">morality\/sin series<\/a> will get active again next week after I take a big midterm tomorrow.<\/p>\n<p>I really appreciate the questions I get from commenters and the helpful exegeses provided any time I have a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.unequally-yoked.com\/search\/label\/bible%20study\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">question about the bible readings<\/a> from Mass. \u00a0If you have any suggestions or requests for topics to be covered here, please leave a note. \u00a0I\u2019m glad to try to answer any questions about my experience of examining religion or anything else you\u2019re wondering about.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>And now, since this is a milestone post, on to the round-up of funny search terms that have brought people to this blog:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Two people got here by googling \u201c<strong>What is the difference between Jesus and Santa Claus<\/strong>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m no expert on Christian theology, but, as far as I can tell, although Jesus may send you to hell, only Santa will <a href=\"http:\/\/www.esquire.com\/features\/ESQ1202-DEC_SEDARIS\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">stuff you in a sack<\/a> and have you beaten by his slaves. \u00a0That\u2019s the extent of my knowledge, so I can\u2019t help the person who got here by asking \u201c<strong>Did the church ever try to kill santa clause<\/strong>\u201d [sic].<\/p>\n<p>A number of you seem to have twigged that my half-Italian, half-Jewish heritage might make me an expert on schnozzes, or so I assume from the people who reached this blog by googling any of the following:\u00a0<strong>practices that may harm our nose<\/strong>, <strong>children poking nose<\/strong>, or\u00a0<strong>describe my nature according to my nose<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<table class=\"tr-caption-container\" style=\"margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;\" cellspacing=\"0\" cellpadding=\"0\" align=\"center\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_b7Eh98KJ_qI\/TLd2SQGToRI\/AAAAAAAABFw\/H7ZsVvtS1oU\/s1600\/bignose.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_b7Eh98KJ_qI\/TLd2SQGToRI\/AAAAAAAABFw\/H7ZsVvtS1oU\/s400\/bignose.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"212\" border=\"0\"><\/a><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td class=\"tr-caption\" style=\"text-align: center;\">\u201cIt is a crag! \u2026 a peak! \u2026 a promontory! \u2026 A promontory, did I say? \u2026 It is a peninsula!\u201d<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Somehow, 31 of you found your way here searching for <strong>\u201cpromises salvation from social anxiety\u201d<\/strong> (quotes included). \u00a0As I think\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.unequally-yoked.com\/2010\/09\/what-have-stupid-people-ever-done-to.html\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">a recent post<\/a> made clear, I absolutely cannot help you with this. \u00a0I understand you haven\u2019t many resources on that front, since when I googled it myself to try to figure out why it pointed to my blog, I got the following result:<\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_b7Eh98KJ_qI\/TLUIIMzdZAI\/AAAAAAAABFs\/jWG2IEJuPEs\/s1600\/noresults.jpg\" class=\" decorated-link\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_b7Eh98KJ_qI\/TLUIIMzdZAI\/AAAAAAAABFs\/jWG2IEJuPEs\/s400\/noresults.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"400\" height=\"61\" border=\"0\"><\/a><\/div>\n<p>Guess we\u2019ll have to struggle on together.<\/p>\n<div class=\"blogger-post-footer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/tracker\/4256452356987023523-290966340558514931?l=www.unequally-yoked.com\" alt=\"\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\"><\/div>\n<\/body><\/html>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is the 100th post since I started blogging here in the middle of June, so I\u2019m giving a quick reflection on how this has been going for me, and I\u2019d really appreciate any feedback from readers, lurkers or otherwise. 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