When (if ever) have you deferred to your philosophical or theological system over your intuitions?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\nI\u2019m not sure I have too much of a philosophical system, or if I do, it\u2019s still a work in progress. I\u2019m also not sure if I\u2019ve deferred to theory over intuition on any moral questions. I defer a lot more to people rather than to systems, I think\u2014see below!<\/p>\n
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Are there people whose opinions on morality you trust more than your own? How do you recognize them? How is trusting them different than trusting someone\u2019s opinion on physics?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\nI\u2019ve spent a lot of time in twelve-step circles. And while I don\u2019t practice the twelve steps (so the Higher Power question is moot for me) one of the best lessons I\u2019ve received from that way of thinking is the idea that you should look for people in recovery who \u201chave what you want.\u201d It took me a long time to learn how to do this. In the past, if I saw someone who seemed to be leading a great life without drugs or alcohol, I\u2019d assume that this person was just naturally better than me in some way and that their path was obviously not open to me. Over time I began to \u201ctake suggestions,\u201d to just do what other people in recovery suggested to me, and so much of that stuff actually worked that I began to look around for people who had what I wanted and ask them about their daily habits, beliefs, etc.<\/p>\n
This is a process, and it isn\u2019t a hard-and-fast rule\u2014there are people whose programs of recovery I admire a lot<\/em> whose moral beliefs I wouldn\u2019t necessarily defer to on all questions. I mean, I wouldn\u2019t vote the way they told me to, for example! (Although part of the reason I trust them is that they wouldn\u2019t ask me to.) But I think I\u2019ve learned to recognize, at least to some extent, when people know more about life than I do, and when we differ on something, I\u2019ve gotten a lot more patient and a lot more likely to accept their beliefs at least for the moment.<\/p>\nYou could argue that since I\u2019m the one picking who to talk to and who to defer to, and since I reserve the right to disagree with everyone, I\u2019m still basically trusting my own intuitions and opinions most. But from the inside it doesn\u2019t feel that way. When I talk with someone I respect in this way and they present a claim or an argument I disagree with, it often feels like I\u2019m being surprised and guided in ways I simply couldn\u2019t do for myself. It feels more like the philosophy which begins in wonder (as vs. the philosophy which begins in doubt, yes, I was a philosophy major). And on a personal level the ongoing practice of humility I need in order to live well feels totally different from a purely self-guided, self-generated belief system. It feels like the kind of trust Leah\u2019s talking about in this question.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t know how this is different from trusting somebody\u2019s opinion about physics. Maybe just that I care a lot more about it! I would rather ride in an airplane designed by somebody who doesn\u2019t really understand physics than entrust any part of my recovery to someone whose moral beliefs and guidance would lead me astray. Because more than my own life is on the line.<\/p>\n
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Can you name any works of art (interpreted pretty broadly: books, music, plays, poetry, mathematical proofs, etc) which really capture the way you see life\/fill you with a sense of awe and wonder? You can give a short explanation or just list a few pieces.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\nI don\u2019t know if I feel \u201cawe\u201d most often through art. I think the most obvious times I feel awe are when I\u2019m with little kids, like my sister\u2019s kids. They\u2019re so bizarre, so clearly Other: They\u2019re like humans-only-more-so. That encounter with the otherness of another person\u2019s mind and consciousness is what gives me the greatest sense of awe. Responding to otherness with love rather than with rejection might be one of the biggest elements of what passes for my moral system.<\/p>\n
As far as works of art which capture the way I see life\u2026 well, in my darker moments, maybe The Birds<\/em>. There\u2019s a lot of light in that movie at the beginning, but it\u2019s really about this totally meaningless, awful attack which has no purpose, no cause, no cure. I do think humans are really prone to turning from cooing lovebirds into attacking crows, basically for no reason. Something inside us jumps the wrong way.<\/p>\nIn my lighter moments, there\u2019s an animated movie called Tokyo Godfathers<\/em> which is about really ramshackle people going on a kind of quest to find a home for an abandoned baby, and I think that gives a sense of how we can save each other.<\/p>\n\u00a0<\/p>\n
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